Ep. 148 Signs You’re Headed for Divorce?

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Spacemen! Heed my warning! Not really. Today, we debunk some common ideas about divorce. Matt's gone, but Mike and Rob get into it about problems one researcher stated are signs of impending divorce. Don't worry, they're not really. But don't just take our word for it, listen in. As a special bonus, you can go watch Rob's final show with his really cool punk-ska band from 20 years ago.
Keywords

infidelity, causes of divorce, communication, intimacy, divorce, intimacy, financial disagreements, excessive drinking, drug use, jealousy, irritating habits, communication, responsibility

Takeaways

• Cheating and infidelity are often symptoms of deeper issues in a relationship rather than the primary cause of divorce.
• The percentage of marriages affected by infidelity is estimated to be between 20% and 45%, but the likelihood of divorce due to infidelity varies.
• It is important to address the underlying issues that lead to infidelity, such as lack of communication and intimacy.
• Deal breakers in a marriage, such as infidelity and violence, are often more complex and nuanced than they appear.
• Open and honest communication, along with a strong emotional connection, are key factors in maintaining a healthy and fulfilling relationship. Infidelity, lack of intimacy, and financial disagreements are common issues in relationships, but they can be worked through with effort and communication.
• Excessive drinking or drug use can be extremely damaging to a relationship and may be difficult to recover from.
• Jealousy and irritating habits can cause conflicts in a relationship, but it's important to consider one's own role and reactions in these situations.
• Divorce is a personal choice, and there are no guarantees in relationships. It's important to weigh the pros and cons and make a decision that aligns with one's values and goals.
• Seeking therapy or counseling can be helpful in navigating relationship challenges and finding solutions.
• Taking responsibility for one's own actions and choices is crucial in maintaining a healthy and fulfilling relationship.

Sound Bites

• "Cheating and infidelity are often symptoms of deeper issues in a relationship."
• "The likelihood of divorce due to infidelity varies."
• "You can bounce back from infidelity... It takes a lot of work."
• "Money is a big deal because it represents safety and security."
• "You're never going back to how things were before... Your relationship will be different going forward."

Chapters

00:00
Podcast Plans and Soda Consumption

09:14
Exploring Signs of Divorce

12:20
Skepticism Towards Divorce Predictors

14:59
Introduction

23:18
Financial Issues in a Relationship

31:56
Substance Abuse and its Impact on Marriage

37:40
Moodiness and its Effect on Relationships

42:43
Dealing with Irritating Habits in a Marriage

46:41
Jealousy and Building Trust in a Relationship

49:57
Conclusion

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