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Exploring Transactional Relationships in Romantic Partnerships
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In this episode, I delve into the concept of transactional relationships. I discuss the difference between "I-it" and "I-Thou" ways of relating, according to philosopher Martin Buber, where one objectifies the other while the other offers a deeper connection based on empathy and curiosity. I explore how this applies to romantic relationships and marriages, as well as how it can evolve over time. I also touch on the impact of external factors, such as having children and the state of the American economy. I offer some tips and advice on how to improve the quality of communication and restore the balance in marriages and relationships. Be sure to watch or listen to gain insights and reflect on the quality of your own relationships! #marriage #relationships
Chapters:
00:00 Introduction
00:21 Transactional Relationships
01:20 Martin Buber: I-it vs I-Thou Relating
04:48 Applying Transactional Relationships to Romantic Relationships
07:00 Adding More Roles & Responsibilities Can Lead to More Transactional Relating
09:00 When We're More Focused on What We Want in Our Lives & How the Partner Can Be a Vehicle to Get This
11:00 Relationships Breakdown When There's an Imbalance Between Transactional & Quality Relating
13:38 American Society's Transactional Nature
15:34 Ways to Reconnect Beyond the Transactional Realm
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