What's It To You!?! Part One

The Savage Siblings Podcast

This episode discusses understanding the differences between valuation and validation in our lives. How and what we value in our lives and what we consider valid in our lives. Andre and Anitra share examples of how we use this knowledge to make decisions and the importance of your sibling relationship in defining valuation and validation.

Have you ever wondered what determines your value system? Or even the relationships that you consider valuable and how we justify and validate those relationships. The episode explores the impact that value and validation have on each other and how we use that scale to invest in or disconnect in the relationships in our lives.

Let’s take a deep dive into defining value and validity and the influence of our family experiences based on the choices that come from those definitions. This episode is for you if you question your worth, if others seem to lack value in who you are in their lives, and/or if you often do not feel accepted in your current relationships. The Savage Siblings share ways to avoid indecisiveness, understand your worth and choose to move forward beyond validation to purpose.

Memorable Quotes:

• When the gift has more value than the cost, you can go further in life. ~ Andre
• Sometimes siblings have to reaffirm our value. ~ Anitra
• Can I find value in something greater than what I am? ~ Andre
• I need to assign a value to an experience. ~ Andre
• Role of valuation occurs before you choose the action. ~ Andre
• Value will shine a light on inconsistencies. ~ Anitra
• Bad sources of valuation will make you look at what others view as validation. ~ Andre
• Identify good and bad sources to see if they are fair partnerships and use teachable moments to move forward. ~ Anitra
• Fair partnerships benefit both if you set boundaries and make sure you are valued. ~ Anitra

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Call to Action:

• Post comments! Leave us a review!
• Share the ways your sibling challenged or encouraged your worth and value growing up! Or perhaps you’ve had enough relationship experiences to understand valuation and validation and put those in proper context.
• Any topics you want us to discuss? Let us know!

Sound Editors: Kyle Davis and Dwayne McClendon
Music: Maxwell Music
Photography: K.Cross Photography

CHAPTERS
00:00:00 - Introduction
00:01:01 - Sibling Check-In
00:08:18 - Sibling Sound-Off Segment
00:32:40 - Sponsorship: S2 Mediaworks
00:33:26 - Savage Segment: Valuation vs Validation
00:58:38 - Closing: Thanks for joining us!

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Chapters

1. Introduction (00:00:00)

2. Sibling Check-In (00:01:01)

3. Sibling Sound-Off Segment (00:08:18)

4. Sponsorship: S2 Mediaworks (00:32:40)

5. Savage Segment: Valuation vs Validation (00:33:26)

6. Closing: Thanks for joining us! (00:58:41)