What's It To You!?! Part Two

The Savage Siblings Podcast

This episode discusses understanding the differences between valuation and validation in our lives. How and what we value in our lives and what we consider valid in our lives. Andre and Anitra share examples of how we use this knowledge to make decisions and the importance of your sibling relationship in defining valuation and validation.

Have you ever wondered what determines your value system? Or even the relationships that you consider valuable and how we justify and validate those relationships. The episode explores the impact that value and validation have on each other and how we use that scale to invest in or disconnect in the relationships in our lives.

Let’s take a deep dive into defining value and validity and the influence of our family experiences based on the choices that come from those definitions. This episode is for you if you question your worth, if others seem to lack value in who you are in their lives, and/or if you often do not feel accepted in your current relationships. The Savage Siblings share ways to avoid indecisiveness, understand your worth and choose to move forward beyond validation to purpose.

Memorable Quotes:

• Validation shows itself in your response, not the review. ~ Andre
• Validity doesn’t always come with “great job”, but constructive criticism can lead to validation. ~ Andre
• It's innate to want to be seen, heard, and recognized. We will seek it out. ~ Anitra
• The world is going to try to define you, don’t let that prevent you from moving forward. ~ Anitra
• The world is going to challenge you, but don’t let it stop you. ~ Andre
• Find value in the character assassination as well as the character affirmation. ~ Andre
• If you aint’ got no hater, you don’t know your value. ~ Andre
• Learn from the imperfections and use them as an opportunity to grow. ~ Anitra
• Value me, my experiences already validated me. ~ Andre
• Value is an individual journey of creation and circumstances for improvement. ~ Anitra

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Call to Action:

• Post comments! Leave us a review!
• Share the ways your sibling challenged or encouraged your worth and value growing up! Or perhaps you’ve had enough relationship experiences to understand valuation and validation and put those in proper context.
• Any topics you want us to discuss? Let us know!

Sound Editors: Kyle Davis and Dwayne McClendon
Music: Maxwell Music
Photography: K.Cross Photography
CHAPTERS
00:00:00 - Introduction
00:01:42 - Savage Segment: Fair Partnership
00:08:18 -
00:32:40 -
00:33:26 -
00:58:41 - Closing: Thanks for joining us!

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Chapters

1. Introduction (00:00:00)

2. Savage Segment: Fair Partnership (00:01:42)

3. Savage Segment: Good and Bad Testing Grounds (00:20:40)

4. Transformational Perspective: The world will ultimately define you, why bother? (00:34:16)

5. The Quick Shot: Useful or Useless (00:43:27)

6. The Final Blow: Your Validity is already in You! (00:52:22)

7. Closing: Thanks for joining us! (00:54:46)