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097: How to Eliminate Self-Hate + Start Accepting Yourself
Manage episode 395486383 series 2434472
This week's solo episode with Ranela is all about how to eliminate self-hate and start accepting yourself. Including:
- Ranela's backstory of identity crisis, self-hate, and rebuilding an authentic life
- How stories turn into identities
- The detriment of comparing ourselves to other people
- Giving ourselves the permission to GRIEVE the loss of identities, people, and beliefs that we thought would stick around forever
- Forgiving ourselves for not being where we thought we “should” be by now.
- Giving ourselves permission to DREAM
- Create a life we love
- The importance of living by our values
- and more!
Ranela Kaligithi is a marriage and family therapist, clinical counselor, and digital creator in Southern California. While completing her graduate work in Psychology at California Baptist University and developing a trauma treatment program. Ranela pursues practical ways for individuals to rise above their circumstances, transform their relationship with themselves, and be effective managers of their mental health.
Timestamps:
18:30 - I started realizing how much I didn’t love myself
23:38 - “I hate myself for not being where I thought I’d be by the time I was 27”
28:41 - What is self-love?
31:25 - Questions to ask yourself to stop hating yourself
37:05 - Why you can’t compare yourself to anyone
43:00 - This is where you begin on your self love journey
45:25 - Why putting yourself first isn’t selfish
Subscribe to the Speaking Our Minds Newsletter to get updates on the latest episodes, upcoming topics, and insider inspo!: https://mailchi.mp/361c1d35da39/pod-newsletter-sign-up
Connect with Ranela:
Connect with me on IG & join my Broadcast channel: @lifewithranela
Facebook: www.facebook.com/ranela.kaligithi
Website: www.lifewithranela.com
Download Ranela's Self-love Mini Workbook: https://lifewithranela.myflodesk.com/self-love
1:1 Coaching with Ranela + more: https://www.lifewithranela.com/socials
Join her Membership Waitlist: https://lifewithranela.myflodesk.com/um24no8tpm
Connect with us on social media for more:
Podcast Instagram: @SpeakingOurMindsPod
Tik Tok: @SpeakingOurMindsPod
Support this show http://supporter.acast.com/the-faith-mental-wellness-podcast-with-brittney-moses.
Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
113 episodes
Manage episode 395486383 series 2434472
This week's solo episode with Ranela is all about how to eliminate self-hate and start accepting yourself. Including:
- Ranela's backstory of identity crisis, self-hate, and rebuilding an authentic life
- How stories turn into identities
- The detriment of comparing ourselves to other people
- Giving ourselves the permission to GRIEVE the loss of identities, people, and beliefs that we thought would stick around forever
- Forgiving ourselves for not being where we thought we “should” be by now.
- Giving ourselves permission to DREAM
- Create a life we love
- The importance of living by our values
- and more!
Ranela Kaligithi is a marriage and family therapist, clinical counselor, and digital creator in Southern California. While completing her graduate work in Psychology at California Baptist University and developing a trauma treatment program. Ranela pursues practical ways for individuals to rise above their circumstances, transform their relationship with themselves, and be effective managers of their mental health.
Timestamps:
18:30 - I started realizing how much I didn’t love myself
23:38 - “I hate myself for not being where I thought I’d be by the time I was 27”
28:41 - What is self-love?
31:25 - Questions to ask yourself to stop hating yourself
37:05 - Why you can’t compare yourself to anyone
43:00 - This is where you begin on your self love journey
45:25 - Why putting yourself first isn’t selfish
Subscribe to the Speaking Our Minds Newsletter to get updates on the latest episodes, upcoming topics, and insider inspo!: https://mailchi.mp/361c1d35da39/pod-newsletter-sign-up
Connect with Ranela:
Connect with me on IG & join my Broadcast channel: @lifewithranela
Facebook: www.facebook.com/ranela.kaligithi
Website: www.lifewithranela.com
Download Ranela's Self-love Mini Workbook: https://lifewithranela.myflodesk.com/self-love
1:1 Coaching with Ranela + more: https://www.lifewithranela.com/socials
Join her Membership Waitlist: https://lifewithranela.myflodesk.com/um24no8tpm
Connect with us on social media for more:
Podcast Instagram: @SpeakingOurMindsPod
Tik Tok: @SpeakingOurMindsPod
Support this show http://supporter.acast.com/the-faith-mental-wellness-podcast-with-brittney-moses.
Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
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