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Ground and Grow

Kayla Estenson Williams, MA, LMFT

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Ground and Grow with therapist, Kayla Estenson Williams. Hey, Kayla here! I am a Minnesota-based licensed marriage and family therapist, yoga teacher, and mental health content creator. In this podcast I chat about topics related to mental health and guide meditations so that you have tools to help you ground and grow- and most importantly- so that you know you’re not alone.
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Working to feel ready to allow others to help care for your baby can be hard for any new parent. And, if you have any Postpartum Anxiety or Postpartum OCD, this can be a huge challenge! In this episode, I talk about what this can look like, ways we can work our way up to feeling confident accepting help in caring for our baby, and a bit of my own e…
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Therapy can be beneficial to parents for SO many reasons- here are 5 of the top ones I notice. If you enjoyed this episode, it would mean the world to me if you rated/reviewed this show wherever you're listening from and shared it with a friend who may enjoy it too! Check out these links for my other relevant offerings! My Therapy Website Where you…
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Our society holds a lot of myths around aging. Many of us may feel some avoidance around aging, fear of aging, or rigid self-expectations around growing older. So, let's challenge a few of the big ones! Check out these links for my other relevant offerings! My Therapy Website Where you can find my therapy services as well as services from others in…
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Arielle Pinkston joins the podcast today to share information about how to connect to self-care while you are trying to conceive. She shares a bit about her own difficult fertility experience, why self-care supports us during this time, as well as how we can practice being gentle and compassionate with ourselves in the process. Arielle is a License…
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Here is a nice meditation for those of you doing some inner child work. In this meditation, we will hold space for the different parts of yourself to explore wounds and initial responses to those wounds. We will slow things down by identifying how you can meet your needs from your authentic self. Thank you for practicing along with me! If you enjoy…
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Parts work (within Internal Family Systems therapy) is a main part of the work that I do- and I find it can be such a helpful framework when we are unlearning old patterns and reconnecting to some new ones. This episode is a nice overview of parts work and how we can work to put it into practice. I referenced Richard Schwartz's book, "No Bad Parts"…
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There are many different costs of infertility treatment- from financial costs, to your time, to your mental health. Here, I'll share info from my personal experience on the different costs of infertility treatment. Check out these links for my other relevant offerings! My Therapy Website Where you can find my therapy services as well as services fr…
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Gayane Aramyan, MA, LMFT is joining us on the podcast today to share some important insights around preparing for parenthood. She will discuss some important conversations to have with your partner/support system, some things to cope ahead for, as well as how therapy or other services can support your process. Gayane offers individual and couples t…
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Struggle with feeling confident in "adulting"? Me too. In this episode, I'll share why we struggle with this, how common it is, some of my personal experiences with it, as well as some ways you can navigate these fears with confidence. Check out these links for my other relevant offerings! My Therapy Website Where you can find my therapy services a…
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Therapy works- if you invest in the process. In this episode I talk about how to be invested in the process so that you can see the biggest outcome of your work. Check out these links for my other relevant offerings! My Therapy Website Where you can find my therapy services as well as services from others in my practice! My Ground & Grow Website Wh…
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This episode is a bit of a life update on my experience in parenthood and work as a therapist, discussion on early parenthood, as well as discussion of holding space for connection with yourself in whatever life phase you are in. Check out these links for my other relevant offerings! My Therapy Website Where you can find my therapy services as well…
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My baby recently turned one year old, and it had me reflecting on what I have learned about myself as a mother over this past year. So, here are a few of the biggest lessons that I have grown into during my first year of motherhood! If you enjoyed this episode, I would greatly appreciate a rate and review so that others can find the podcast! Check …
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Shame bombs, those moments where we randomly think about something we regret doing in the past- and feel shameful and guilty all over again. Let's normalize that it happens to us all and figure out ways to work through those moments so we can feel connected to our self-worth and our true values. Check out these links for my other relevant offerings…
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Join me for a guided visualization! Here, we will go through a grounding walk through the woods and you can create a setting that feels most comfortable for you. Check out these links for my other relevant offerings! My Therapy Website Where you can find my therapy services as well as services from others in my practice! My Ground & Grow Website Wh…
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Trauma impacts many of us and inevitably it also impacts how we parent. Tune into this episode to learn more about how it can impact our parenting and why healing can not only be helpful for us- but also can have a significant impact on how present and authentic we can show up as parents. Check out these links for my other relevant offerings! My Th…
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Let's dig into trauma around the perinatal experience! Trauma can be common for those who navigate infertility, pregnancy, postpartum, as well as for anyone growing their family. Here, we will normalize this experience as well as the need for support around it. Here are the resources I referenced in the episode: Postpartum Support International: ht…
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It's May, which means it's also Maternal Mental Health Month! In this episode, I will give an overview on perinatal mental health, how to identify if you could use some support, and where to find that support. Here are the resources I referenced in the episode: Postpartum Support International: https://www.postpartum.net/ Infant Risk Center (inform…
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Join me for a Progressive Muscle Relaxation. This practice can be helpful to release tension that our body holds through stress and trauma. Here, I will guide you through some breath work as well as a full body Progressive Muscle Relaxation. If you enjoyed this episode, I would greatly appreciate a rate and review from wherever you are listening so…
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Looking for some tools to help you feel regulated? In this episode I talk about how somatic practices, or things that we can do to ground our physical body, are so important for regulating our nervous system. Listen along to learn more about why this is as well as some of my go-to practices! If you enjoyed this episode, I would greatly appreciate a…
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Interested in starting therapy but not sure what to expect? Then this episode is for you! I will talk about some common ways that therapy can look like as well as what you can expect when starting up with a therapist. If you enjoyed this episode, I would greatly appreciate a rate and review from wherever you are listening so that I can grow my podc…
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Working through themes related to inner-child work and attachment trauma is a long term process. It can feel so complicated as well as challenging to identify progress overtime. This episode is full of some great reminders for those of you who are in the thick of it! If you enjoyed this episode, I would greatly appreciate a rate and review from whe…
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Are your goals ever too rigid to actually be helpful? In this episode, I talk about how to make your goals and intentions more effective by adding flexibility that will support you best. Whether you set goals for the new year, or are just wanting some helpful tips for future goals, this episode is for you! If you enjoyed this episode, I would great…
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The holiday season can be rough for anyone going through fertility struggles. In this episode, I'll share some common experiences as well as what I went through over a couple holiday seasons. Listen along for some validation or to better understand your loved one who may be going through it. If you enjoyed this episode, I would greatly appreciate a…
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Infertility can have a significant impact on our mental health. In this episode, I will talk about some of my own personal experiences as well as some other common experiences relating to infertility and mental health. I will also touch on some ways that we can support our mental health during this time. If you enjoyed this episode, I would greatly…
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This meditation is a safe space visualization. Here, we will go through the senses to create a space that feels safe and comforting to you. This can be a great practice for when you are navigating trauma related triggers, feeling dysregulated, or just need some grounding. I hope you enjoy! If you enjoyed today's episode, I greatly appreciate a rate…
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This episode is a part 2 to the previous episode. In "Attachment Trauma and Not Feeling Good Enough", we talked about why those who experience attachment trauma often struggle with self-worth. In this episode, we will get into some practices that you can bring in to build your sense of self-worth while you are working on healing. If you get a chanc…
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In this episode, we will talk about how common self-worth concerns are for those who have experienced attachment trauma as well as why that is. In the next episode, we will discuss some practices you can bting in to support your inherent sense of self-worth. Website: www.kaylaestenson.com Instagram: www.instagram.com/kaylaestensonwellness The Begin…
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In this meditation, we will identify where you are currently placing your energy as well as explore other areas in which you might want to place your energy. We will go through your sensory experiences to identify intentions that feel best for you. Check out my links for more related content: Website: www.kaylaestenson.com Instagram: www.instagram.…
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I'm coming back from my break with a little life update for you! In this episode I will talk about my experience with maternity leave as well as how I'm feeling about returning back to work. Regular episodes will be returning every other week! Check out my links for more related content: Website: www.kaylaestenson.com Instagram: www.instagram.com/k…
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It's normal for our energies and motivations to shift around based on the season of life we are in. Here, I will talk about the different seasons of life that we may experience as well as how we can tune in and hold space for what we need in that season. Update: I will be taking a little pause from the podcast for the next couple months. I look for…
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Boundary work can be full of complex emotions and experiences. Join me in this meditation to hold space for and honor these experiences through a present and accepting lens. Check out my links for more related content: Website: www.kaylaestenson.com Instagram: www.instagram.com/kaylaestensonwellness The Beginner's Guide to Creating Your Authentic P…
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Boundary work is tough stuff- and it isn't all about getting our needs met in relationships. Often, it's about the boundaries we need to hold for ourselves, which involves a lot of acceptance and grief work. In this episode, I'll talk about the importance of that grief work as well as some ways that we can start holding that space for ourselves. Ch…
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This episode follows up the previous episode on attachment trauma to talk about how we can work on healing our attachment wounds. Here, I go over some foundational steps that can be helpful to take as we are working on healing and growing into healthier attachment. Check out my links for more related content: Website: www.kaylaestenson.com Instagra…
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In today's episode, we will talk about attachment trauma, otherwise known as complex or developmental trauma. We will explore this experience and how it often differs from the presentation of PTSD. Stay tuned for the next episode on how we can work on healing these attachment wounds! Check out my links for more related content: Website: www.kaylaes…
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Bridget Mozina (a fellow Minnesota based LMFT) joins us on the podcast today as a therapist who works with children, teens, and their parents. In this episode, we will talk about how perfectionism shows up in parenting, what normal dysregulation looks like in kids, how parents can support their kids through tough emotions, and when therapy can be a…
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Finding a good fit with your therapist makes all the difference! In this episode, I'll talk about some things to consider when searching for a therapist and how to get a feel for if a therapist is a good fit for you. Check out my links for more related content: Website: www.kaylaestenson.com Instagram: www.instagram.com/kaylaestensonwellness The Be…
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This episode is a meditation on practicing accepting emotions. This practice can be an important one for those of us working on processing our emotions as well as working on our own healing. Join me in this meditation for some grounding, breath work, and tuning into whatever emotions are present. Music: Venkatesanada, by Jesse Gallagher Check out m…
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In this episode, we are going to call out some icky societal messaging. If you ever feel guilty about wanting to make more money, or if you are feeling stuck in an undervalued position, this episode is for you! The Beginner's Guide to Creating Your Authentic Practice: https://www.kaylaestenson.com/the-beginners-guide-to-creating-your-authentic-prac…
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This episode is for those of you in private practice or any small business! Here, we will review some common myths (limiting beliefs) and challenge them with some value and goal based perspectives. If you are a health and wellness provider thinking of starting your own private practice, my new Authentic Practice offerings launch today! The Beginner…
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If the 40-hour work week doesn't feel sustainable to you, you're not alone. In this episode I will talk about how this "norm" is so outdated, why it doesn't work for most of us, and how we can start exploring shifting away from it. Check out my links for more related content: Website: www.kaylaestenson.com Instagram: www.instagram.com/kaylaestenson…
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In this episode, we will talk about different ways that you can communicate your boundaries as well as follow through with your own boundaries. I'll detail the DEAR MAN skill as well as the importance of respecting your boundaries. Check out my links for more related content: Website: www.kaylaestenson.com Instagram: www.instagram.com/kaylaestenson…
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Boundaries are challenging for most of us- mainly due to the societal beliefs about boundaries. In this episode, we will talk about and challenge 5 common myths about boundaries. Hopefully, these challenges can give you a little extra space as you work to hold boundaries for yourself. Check out my links for more related content: Website: www.kaylae…
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Here is a guided meditation to help you pause and ground when you are feeling anxious, stressed, overwhelmed, or just need a minute to yourself. We will go through some gentle practices with the breath that you get to adjust to suit whatever feels best in your body. I hope this meditation gives you a little bit of grounding in your day. Check out m…
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While our society often runs on getting burned out and then taking a break as a recovery necessity, taking breaks to prevent burn out is so much more sustainable for our human selves. In this episode, I will talk about how I recently put this into practice and some indications that we need a pre-burnout break! Check out my links for more related co…
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In this episode, I'll talk about why it's so normal for us to struggle with fitting into societal norms/expectations, ways that we can explore this for ourselves, as well as ways we can start taking some baby steps into things that feel more authentic for us. Check out my links for more related content: Website: www.kaylaestenson.com Instagram: www…
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To those of you exploring the idea of your own business, or those of you already navigating your own business (therapy related or not)- this one is for you! Here are 5 lessons I've learned since starting my own business. The theme of all of these: to allow myself to be human as I run my business. I hope you enjoy! Check out my links for more relate…
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In this meditation episode, we will explore the emotional experience. Together, we will tune into sensations, thoughts, and interpretations that show up with your emotion. We will also set some intentions for how you can continue to hold space and support this emotional experience. Check out my links for more related content: Website: www.kaylaeste…
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In this episode I will talk all about "Receiving Boundaries", or the boundaries that help us process and respond to information that is coming in. I'll discuss what these boundaries are, why we need them, and some foundational skills to help you practice them! Check out my links for more related content: Website: www.kaylaestenson.com Instagram: ww…
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In this episode, we will talk about ways that many of us may jump into crisis mode when someone else is in distress. We will explore why this may show up for us, how we can start to notice this more, and skills that we can practice to honor the boundaries we are allowed to have around others' emotions. Check out my links for more related content: W…
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To all my people-pleasers: tune in. Your compassion gets to have boundaries, and in fact, it's healthy to have boundaries for your compassion. In this episode I will talk about what means to be compassionate, what it means to be nice, how sometimes we are both of these things, and how sometimes it's important to be compassionate without being nice.…
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