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16. About being good enough - with Clive Elwood and Ruth Serlin
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This is a deep dive into the topic of being good enough! Host Petra Agthe is exploring the topic with guests Clive Elwood and Ruth Serlin, who have many insights to share.
Timestamps:
00:00:56 Introduction to episode
00:03:49 About our partner VIN Europe
00:04:34 Welcoming Clive and Ruth
00:05:08 What does 'good enough' mean?
00:21:04 How Clive and Ruth have found their 'good enough' space
00:29:55 About identity, striving for perfection and 'the Gold Standard'
00:34:34 The discomfort of imperfection, and comfort of relationships
00:40:26 Cultivating a sense of good enoughness
00:47:51 Pitfalls and difficulties of being or becoming good enough
01:06:37 Clive's and Ruth's most favourite resources on the topic
01:08:41 Where to find out more about Clive and Ruth
01:11:06 Good-bye
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Book recommendations mentioned in this episode:
The Myth of Normal by Dr Gabor Maté
Daring Greatly and Dare to Lead by Brené Brown
The Book You Wish Your Parents Had Read by Philippa Perry
Talk: The Science of Conversation by Elizabeth Stoke
Where to find Clive:
Website: https://trelliscoaching.co.uk
LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/clive-elwood-frcvs-b7aba216/
Twitter: @cliveelwood
Clive's book Leadership in Veterinary Medicine: https://www.wiley.com/en-ie/Leadership+in+Veterinary+Medicine-p-9781119749769
Where to find Ruth:
VDS website: https://www.vds-training.co.uk/about
LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/ruth-serlin-ab492199/
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Credits:
Music- Deep Ambience by Coma-Media, Pixabay; Images for Artwork- OpenClipart-Vectors, Pixabay
Chapters
1. 16. About being good enough - with Clive Elwood and Ruth Serlin (00:00:00)
2. Introduction to episode (00:00:56)
3. About Clive Elwood and Ruth Serlin (00:02:03)
4. About our partner VIN Europe (00:03:49)
5. Welcoming Clive and Ruth (00:04:34)
6. What does 'good enough' mean? (00:05:08)
7. The role of judgment (00:17:12)
8. How developing a sense of being good enough has been helpful to Clive and Ruth (00:21:04)
9. The role of our professional identity, striving for perfection and 'the Gold Standard' (00:29:55)
10. The importance of learning to live with discomfort of imperfection, and finding comfort in relationships (00:34:34)
11. Cultivating a sense of good enoughness (00:40:26)
12. Pitfalls and difficulties of being or becoming good enough (00:47:51)
13. About intuition and being good enough (00:55:01)
14. Importance of relationships (again) (00:57:49)
15. About being good enough and happiness (01:01:45)
16. Clive's and Ruth's most favourite resources on the topic (01:06:37)
17. Where to find out more about Clive and Ruth (01:08:41)
18. Good-bye (01:11:06)
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