Ep 98: Doing Everything for Others Before They Even Ask? Why Your Empathy and Nurturing Turns Into Your Weakness and How to Heal It
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Were you raised to always take care of others, never say no, and allow yourself to feel good and worthy only when others need you?
Yes, your empathy and selfless nurturing character are great character strengths.
But you're also paying a high price for them, don't you?
So how to do it differently?
How do you still keep being a nice, caring mom, without becoming resentful and burned out?
Who would you be and where would your sense of self-worth come from, if not from your need to feel needed?
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Alena Gomes Rodrigues is a mommy tantrum specialist and the founder of the Zen Supermom method.
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Chapters
1. Intro (00:00:00)
2. What I Realized (00:04:50)
3. The Holidays For Women (00:05:56)
4. The Need to Feel Needed (00:10:05)
5. It Goes Back To Your Childhood (00:11:54)
6. You're Not Here Just to Help Others (00:24:44)
7. Catch Your Trauma (00:27:02)
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