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This podcast explores the inner workings, struggles, challenges, and beauty of being in a relationship. It goes deep in uncovering how people have overcome challenges to become engaged and then married. It intentionally focuses on getting perspective from married men of color, especially married Black men, while providing a platform where people can learn from their stories. This podcast also highlights the mental burdens that stem from societal pressures, generational curses, gender related norms, and personal expectations.

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S04.E05 - LaDarius Part 2: Healing is not a one day thing 43:04

4 days ago43:04

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In this episode (Healing is not a one day thing), I wrap my conversation with LaDarius as we discuss his journey in marriage and faith. We talk about the importance of communicating expectations upfront. We discuss how he and his wife navigated several major life changes - getting pregnant, being engaged, becoming a father, dealing with COVID epidemic, and getting married - within less than two years. We explore the need to heal and the way having a strong relationship with Jesus Christ can show you how to operate in marriage. We also highlight the impact therapy can have and how it proactively helped him get in front of things that he needed and wanted to navigate. We are on all major platforms like YouTube ( http://www.youtube.com/@ThinkLoveWife ), Apple Podcasts, Spotify, TuneIn, Castbox and other streaming services. Don’t forget to subscribe and share with your friends. Follow @ThinkLoveWife on Instagram and send questions or topics you’d like us to discuss. Email us at feedback@thinklovewife.com with any feedback!…

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S04.E04 - LaDarius Part 1: Your joy is your responsibility 41:26

11 days ago41:26

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In this episode (Your joy is your responsibility), I begin my conversation with LaDarius as we tackle how he faced his history, created boundaries, and found happiness as he pursued his now-wife for marriage. We discuss the importance of maintaining boundaries when dating and while trying to grow a deeper relationship with Christ. We talk about navigating our personal history, more specifically, his wounds from his mother and how it’s part of the preparation process. We unpack his realization during a period of time when he wasn’t making the best decisions for himself and the effects of placing blame on others when you’re getting what you want. We dissect his mindset shift required to maintain his joy. We also explore the need to acknowledge and be present in your partner’s feelings when you are working to achieve your personal goals as well as the things you want for your relationship. We touch on the challenges of being an influencer and entrepreneur while maintaining a marriage. We are on all major platforms like YouTube ( http://www.youtube.com/@ThinkLoveWife ), Apple Podcasts, Spotify, TuneIn, Castbox and other streaming services. Don’t forget to subscribe and share with your friends. Follow @ThinkLoveWife on Instagram and send questions or topics you’d like us to discuss. Email us at feedback@thinklovewife.com with any feedback!…

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S04.E03 - Allen Part 3: Sometimes you don't want to hear $h!t about yourself 39:18

18 days ago39:18

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In this episode (Sometimes you don’t want to hear $h!t about yourself), I wrap up my conversation with Allen and his evolution as a husband and father. We discuss how “good sex” looks different to different people. We talk about the misconceptions of sex and challenges that can come up in that area once married. We explore why women do not usually communicate or give feedback to their partner when they’ve had poor sexual experiences. Allen and I unpack how fatherhood has changed him and the importance of preparing your children for adult experiences. We also touch on therapy and I get his perspective on what is hard about going as well as why people should go to therapy. We are on all major platforms. YouTube ( http://www.youtube.com/@ThinkLoveWife ), Apple Podcasts, Spotify, TuneIn, Castbox and other streaming services. Don’t forget to subscribe and share with your friends. Follow @ThinkLoveWife on Instagram and send questions or topics you’d like us to discuss. Email us at feedback@thinklovewife.com with any feedback!…

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S04.E02 - Allen Part 2: Nobody's perfect and no relationship is perfect 41:46

26 days ago41:46

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In this episode (Nobody's perfect and no relationship is perfect), I continue my conversation with Allen, exploring the ups and downs of his relationship and journey to marriage. We discuss his five-year engagement and how he navigated this journey with his fiancee. We talk about his rationale for having a child during the COVID epidemic and discuss how he was able to get past a bump in the road with his in-laws. Allen and I explore the importance of moving as a unit in marriage. We also break down a few different approaches to finances for a household. We are on all major platforms. YouTube ( http://www.youtube.com/@ThinkLoveWife ), Apple Podcasts, Spotify, TuneIn, Castbox and other streaming services. Don’t forget to subscribe and share with your friends. Follow @ThinkLoveWife on Instagram and send questions or topics you’d like us to discuss. Email us at feedback@thinklovewife.com with any feedback!…

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S04.E01 - Allen Part 1: I gave her an ultimatum 39:12

5 weeks ago39:12

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In this episode (I gave her an ultimatum), I explore Allen's journey to marriage and challenges that come with dating. I talk to a friend, who's recently married after being engaged for five years, to uncover lessons learned. We discuss navigating life's transitions on one's journey to getting married. We talk about how having a child impacts your calculus on getting married. Allen and I investigate why guys are scared to shoot their shot and the best places for singles to meet each other. We share different views on dating versus courting. We explore why people look for symbolic things, when dating, that don't have a lot of meaning when it comes to marriage. We are on all major platforms. YouTube ( http://www.youtube.com/@ThinkLoveWife ), Apple Podcasts, Spotify, TuneIn, Castbox and other streaming services. Don’t forget to subscribe and share with your friends. Follow @ThinkLoveWife on Instagram and send questions or topics you’d like us to discuss. Email us at feedback@thinklovewife.com with any feedback!…

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S03.E15 - Darrin Part 1: Selflessly Selfish 51:45

2 years ago51:45

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In this episode (Selflessly Selfish), I discuss with Darrin how he navigated obstacles such as long distance, being an entrepreneur, and infidelity prior to getting married as well as how those lessons learned has helped him become a good husband. We focus on the challenges that come with trying to satisfy your passions as well as your partner. I talk about the importance of having someone that supports you and your passions. We explore the tough calls and tradeoffs you have to make when doubling down on pursuing your dreams and how critical it is to know when to get out or pivot. We also examine how generational differences impact how we view dating today, pursue relationships, and consider sources of advice. Help support the podcast so it can continue to give you quality content. Donations of support can be made via Zelle to thinklovewife_donations@neloeffect.com . Contributions will go towards things like equipment, studio time, and operational costs to keep this podcast going. This episode is sponsored by Nelo Effect, a coaching and consulting service that helps people turn mindfulness into action as they navigate the dating world as well as in their relationships. Learn more at https://neloeffect.com/dating-relationship-advising/ We are on all major platforms. Apple Podcasts, Spotify, Stitcher, GooglePlay Music, TuneIn, Castbox, and many others. Don’t forget to subscribe and share with your friends. Follow @ThinkLoveWife on Instagram and Facebook. Send questions or topics you’d like us to discuss.…

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S03.E14 - Carlton Part 3: The benefit of truly learning somebody 1:08:30

2 years ago1:08:30

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In this episode (The benefit of truly learning somebody), I wrap up my conversation with Carlton as we talk through the benefit of truly learning someone and having a healthy sex life in a marriage. We discuss the challenge that men have listening instead of problem-solving. We highlight the intentionality required to develop organic and strong relationships with the in-laws. We examine the importance of sex in a marriage and maintaining an active sexual dynamic throughout the years. We conclude on the idea that the head of the household being a collective effort. Help support the podcast so it can continue to give you quality content. Donations of support can be made via Zelle to thinklovewife_donations@neloeffect.com . Contributions will go towards things like equipment, studio time, and operational costs to keep this podcast going. This episode is sponsored by Nelo Effect, a coaching and consulting service that helps people turn mindfulness into action as they navigate the dating world as well as in their relationships. Learn more at https://neloeffect.com/dating-relationship-advising/ We are on all major platforms. Apple Podcasts, Spotify, Stitcher, GooglePlay Music, TuneIn, Castbox, and many others. Don’t forget to subscribe and share with your friends. Follow @ThinkLoveWife on Instagram and Facebook. Send questions or topics you’d like us to discuss.…

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S03.E13 - Carlton Part 2: The unfortunate part of dating 50:15

2 years ago50:15

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In this episode (The unfortunate part of dating), I discuss the value of knowing your person’s heart with Carlton as he shares more of his journey in marriage and in fatherhood. We talk about why guys are okay dating more than one person at the same time and the tradeoffs you make while dating multiple people. We discuss how harder it becomes to date as people get older and considerations for living with your partner prior to marriage. We examine the need for parity in a relationship and being mindful of the development opportunities of who you choose to hitch your wagon. We highlight the importance of communication in the middle of conflict and investing in your relationship once kids are in the picture. We also debate what matters more: trusting or respecting someone for their opinions or feedback. Help support the podcast so it can continue to give you quality content. Donations of support can be made via Zelle to thinklovewife_donations@neloeffect.com . Contributions will go towards things like equipment, studio time, and operational costs to keep this podcast going. This episode is sponsored by Nelo Effect, a coaching and consulting service that helps people turn mindfulness into action as they navigate the dating world as well as in their relationships. Learn more at https://neloeffect.com/dating-relationship-advising/ We are on all major platforms. Apple Podcasts, Spotify, Stitcher, GooglePlay Music, TuneIn, Castbox, and many others. Don’t forget to subscribe and share with your friends. Follow @ThinkLoveWife on Instagram and Facebook. Send questions or topics you’d like us to discuss.…

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S03.E12 - Carlton Part 1: Am I really willing to do the work? 44:16

2 years ago44:16

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In this episode (Am I really willing to do the work?), I discuss the feeling of knowing when you know and how they led to Carlton dating someone he randomly met prior to graduating college as well as their journey in marriage. We discuss the importance of being intentional when getting to know someone. We break down the process of knowing that you know and how specific experiences can solidify how a guy feels about a woman. We also dive deep in what it means when a guy says “you know when you know”. Help support the podcast so it can continue to give you quality content. Donations of support can be made via Zelle to thinklovewife_donations@neloeffect.com . Contributions will go towards things like equipment, studio time, and operational costs to keep this podcast going. This episode is sponsored by Nelo Effect, a coaching and consulting service that helps people turn mindfulness into action as they navigate the dating world as well as in their relationships. Learn more at https://neloeffect.com/dating-relationship-advising/ We are on all major platforms. Apple Podcasts, Spotify, Stitcher, GooglePlay Music, TuneIn, Castbox, and many others. Don’t forget to subscribe and share with your friends. Follow @ThinkLoveWife on Instagram and Facebook. Send questions or topics you’d like us to discuss.…

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S03.E11 - Courtney Part 3: I could have went off the rails 52:33

2 years ago52:33

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In this episode (I could have went off the rails), I wrap up my conversation with Courtney discussing critical moments that challenged his marriage early onsuch as dealing with a miscarriage and overcoming a severe covid experience. We emphasize the need to find time and space for yourself in the midst of internal and external chaos so you can show up better for your partner and family. Help support the podcast so it can continue to give you quality content. Donations of support can be made via Zelle to thinklovewife_donations@neloeffect.com . Contributions will go towards things like equipment, studio time, and operational costs to keep this podcast going. This episode is sponsored by Nelo Effect, a coaching and consulting service that helps people turn mindfulness into action as they navigate the dating world as well as in their relationships. Learn more at https://neloeffect.com/dating-relationship-advising/ We are on all major platforms. Apple Podcasts, Spotify, Stitcher, GooglePlay Music, TuneIn, Castbox, and many others. Don’t forget to subscribe and share with your friends. Follow @ThinkLoveWife on Instagram and Facebook. Send questions or topics you’d like us to discuss.…

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S03.E10 - Courtney Part 2: From supporting myself to supporting three 40:37

2 years ago40:37

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In this episode (From supporting myself to supporting three), I talk to Courtney about his journey of becoming a stepfather. We discuss the importance of creating boundaries and relationship norms while learning to be a stepfather. We dive into the conversations required to engage as a parental figure while dating. We highlight why you should break through taboo norms and not wait very long to have meaningful conversations on important topics (i.e., life goals, salary/income). Help support the podcast so it can continue to give you quality content. Donations of support can be made via Zelle to thinklovewife_donations@neloeffect.com . Contributions will go towards things like equipment, studio time, and operational costs to keep this podcast going. This episode is sponsored by Nelo Effect, a coaching and consulting service that helps people turn mindfulness into action as they navigate the dating world as well as in their relationships. Learn more at https://neloeffect.com/dating-relationship-advising/ We are on all major platforms. Apple Podcasts, Spotify, Stitcher, GooglePlay Music, TuneIn, Castbox, and many others. Don’t forget to subscribe and share with your friends. Follow @ThinkLoveWife on Instagram and Facebook. Send questions or topics you’d like us to discuss.…

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S03.E09 - Courtney Part 1: Shoutout to Bumble! 57:14

2 years ago57:14

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In this episode (Shoutout to Bumble!), I discuss how Courtney’s match on Bumble turned from a casual dating scenario to a marriage. We talk about dating a woman with a child and navigating how to build individual relationships with both. We highlight his doubts and misconceptions. We also examine the natural progression men go through in their journey towards marriage. Black-owned bourbon brand named in this episode is by the Brough Brothers Distillery ( https://broughbrothers.com ). Please support by checking them out. Help support the podcast so it can continue to give you quality content. Donations of support can be made via Zelle to thinklovewife_donations@neloeffect.com . Contributions will go towards things like equipment, studio time, and operational costs to keep this podcast going. This episode is sponsored by Nelo Effect, a coaching and consulting service that helps people turn mindfulness into action as they navigate the dating world as well as in their relationships. Learn more at https://neloeffect.com/dating-relationship-advising/ We are on all major platforms. Apple Podcasts, Spotify, Stitcher, GooglePlay Music, TuneIn, Castbox, and many others. Don’t forget to subscribe and share with your friends. Follow @ThinkLoveWife on Instagram and Facebook. Send questions or topics you’d like us to discuss.…

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S03.E08 - Jourdan Part 2: I don't want a cheerleader 1:19:38

2 years ago1:19:38

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In this episode (I don’t want a cheerleader), I wrap up my conversation with Jourdan as he explains his need to have a partner he can trust and that can hold their own as he navigates his marriage with someone of a different ethic, cultural, and religious background. We run back their decision to not live with each other, despite moving to a new city together. We talk through navigating the differences between expectations and preferences. We discuss the importance of having tough conversations to get to a happy place even if you’re not happy with the outcome. We offer our perspective on compatibility and how vulnerability looks different for different people. We highlight the need for self-awareness in a relationship and to show up for your partner just as much as you do for yourself. Help support the podcast so it can continue to give you quality content. Donations of support can be made via Zelle to thinklovewife_donations@neloeffect.com . Contributions will go towards things like equipment, studio time, and operational costs to keep this podcast going. This episode is sponsored by Nelo Effect, a coaching and consulting service that helps people turn mindfulness into action as they navigate the dating world as well as in their relationships. Learn more at https://neloeffect.com/dating-relationship-advising/ We are on all major platforms. Apple Podcasts, Spotify, Stitcher, GooglePlay Music, TuneIn, Castbox, and many others. Don’t forget to subscribe and share with your friends. Follow @ThinkLoveWife on Instagram and Facebook. Send questions or topics you’d like us to discuss.…

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S03.E07 - Jourdan Part 1: We never look at anybody’s Ls 50:44

2 years ago50:44

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In this episode (We never look at anybody’s Ls), I talk to Jourdan about his reluctance in participating in the dating game and how being honest with himself and what he wanted led to him finding his wife. We examine the world of dating today and thematic problems that people face. We discuss taking a different approach to dating and the importance of strong communication and being upfront with people from jump. We dive into navigating dating while focusing on life’s other priorities. We emphasize the necessity of being honest with ourselves first when it comes to dating - what we want, the realisticness of our expectations, and the tradeoffs we’re willing to make. We also spend time on the need to understand our mental health and benefits of seeing a therapist. Help support the podcast so it can continue to give you quality content. Donations of support can be made via Zelle to thinklovewife_donations@neloeffect.com . Contributions will go towards things like equipment, studio time, and operational costs to keep this podcast going. This episode is sponsored by Nelo Effect, a coaching and consulting service that helps people turn mindfulness into action as they navigate the dating world as well as in their relationships. Learn more at https://neloeffect.com/dating-relationship-advising/ We are on all major platforms. Apple Podcasts, Spotify, Stitcher, GooglePlay Music, TuneIn, Castbox, and many others. Don’t forget to subscribe and share with your friends. Follow @ThinkLoveWife on Instagram and Facebook. Send questions or topics you’d like us to discuss.…

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S03.E06 - Julian Part 3: We took the first baby for granted 35:24

2 years ago35:24