Preparing for your Child to Leave Home

Life after Kids with Drs. Brooke and Lynne

In this emotionally charged episode of Life after Kids, we tackle the complex and often heart-wrenching topic of preparing for your child to leave for college, aiming to provide both emotional support and practical tips. Dr. Brooke shares her personal experiences with her son’s transitions to college, underscoring the valuable lessons learned along the way.

Key Takeaways:

• Stages of Grief: Understand that the emotional journey of launching a child includes stages like denial, anger, bargaining, depression, and acceptance.
• Parental Self-Care: Stress the significance of self-care and finding new purposes for personal fulfilment post-child launch.
• Sibling Impact: Acknowledge and address the emotional impact on siblings left at home when an older child leaves for college.
• Drop-off Advice: Practical suggestions for managing the college drop-off, emphasizing the benefits of a shorter drop-off duration.
• Open Communication: Encourage honest conversations with your child about the changes and emotions surrounding their departure.

Throughout this episode of Life after Kids, we delve into the grief parents may experience during this transition, discussing the normalcy of feeling anger and sadness, the necessity of self-care, and the benefits of finding a new personal focus or hobby. Don't miss this heartfelt episode packed with wisdom and practical advice to help you navigate the transition of your child leaving for college. Tune in now and stay tuned for future episodes offering more support and insights on parenting and life transitions.
Resources:

• Life After Kids Blog
• Amazon College List
• Community Membership: Join the Life After Kids membership community for support and resources - Life After Kids Community

Timestamp Summary
| 0:00 | Emotional Preparation for Kids Leaving for College
| 4:30 | Misdirected Anger and Emotional Turmoil Over a Son Leaving Home
| 6:32 | Navigating Anger and Loss in Family Dynamics
| 8:21 | Balancing Family Expectations and Personal Relationships
| 9:11 | Preparing for Children's Departure and Finding New Purpose
| 13:28 | The Impact of Denial and Compartmentalization on Emotional Wellbeing
| 13:48 | Navigating the Emotional Challenges of Empty Nest Syndrome
| 16:58 | A Mother's Emotional Struggle with Her Son Leaving for College
| 18:00 | Navigating Emotional Transitions in Parenting
| 22:40 | Navigating Emotional Challenges During Major Life Transitions
| 29:10 | Coping with Emotional Exhaustion and Finding Comfort in Small Things
| 31:01 | Channeling Loss into Creation and Personal Growth
| 32:45 | Navigating Parenting Challenges and Preparing Kids for College

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Making tomorrow even better than today,
Dr. Brooke and Dr. Lynne
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