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Am I Bigger Than Her? A Conversation with Body Peace Coach, Nina Manolson
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Nina Manolson is a body peace coach, who help her clients end the war with food and body and finally feel truly at home in their bodies, as they are now.*
From the first second I started chatting with Nina, I was touched by her empathy and warmth. She was 100% present with me and was deeply invested in this conversation.
I first came across Nina many years ago on the Fit and Fearless podcast on BBC Radio1 with Tally Rye, Victoria Niamh Spence, and Zanna Van Dijk.
She read a poem on air called 'I feel fat' and she spoke about her therapist asking her,
"but if you didn't feel fat, what would you be feeling?"
Her words resonated deeply with me and since I started the podcast in January, I've been so excited to have her on as a guest.
We talk about the following topics:
- How do we be 'body current' and accept and find peace with the bodies we are in now?
- Embodiment. How body image healing can only start to happen from the inside out.
- How can we accept our bodies when the goalposts change through peri to post menopause?
- How do we start feeling more like ourselves when our bodies start to change.
- How getting curious about the body thoughts that arise can help us lead with self-compassion.
- How to NOT compare our bodies to those of others
Nina ends by reading a beautiful poem she wrote on the 'compare & despair' that we so often feel.
Am I Bigger Than Her?
Am I bigger than her?
I ask my husband
As a woman passes on the street
Am I bigger than her?
I ask myself, as I walk into the room
Measuring up all the women
Am I bigger than her?
I look at a picture of younger me
A “memory” on Facebook from years ago
Am I bigger than her?
I am asking:
Am I less attractive?
less powerful?
less likable?
less worthy than her?
Comparing myself to her size
And her size
And her size
If I’m bigger than her, then I’m less than her
If I’m smaller than her, then I’m more than her
And her size and her size and her size
My self worth going up and down with each comparison
Scoring points in a game against myself
There’s always someone bigger
And always someone smaller
There’s no winning this game
It’s just reducing women to their size
Aren’t we bigger than that?
~Nina Manolson
You can find Nina on Instagram or contact her through her website where all of Nina's Body Peace offerings are available.
For free resources, click here to access
Are you feeling stuck in the 'earn and burn' cycle with your exercise routine, or as summer approaches, are you feeling self-conscious about wearing a swimsuit on the beach?
Maybe you just want to stop worrying so much about food or how your body looks.
You are not alone and your body is NOT the problem
Please reach out if you would like some support. We both have limited slots for Intuitive Eating Coaching, so get in touch with Christine or with Ela.
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