325: A Free Birth After Birth Trauma with Alexa Ericson

Mom and Mind

Today’s episode is about a topic that may be unfamiliar to many. My guest shares her journey through her first pregnancy, birth, and postpartum, along with why she chose a very different scenario called free birth to welcome her second child into the world. Join us to learn more!

Alexa Ericson shares why she chose a free birth for her second child, what that is, and how that choice worked out for her. She explains how she found comfort through writing and decided to put her experiences into a book–with the hopes of helping other women. Her book of poetry, Motherhood, Disenchanted, covers “adventures into the nitty-gritty, sleep-deprived, chaotic, and sometimes dark thoughts that come fluttering through the early years of mothering.” After back-to-back pregnancies and years of isolated mothering due to her location and lockdowns, she felt a major gap in the discussion around the raw and tough, intimate moments of motherhood. Alexa used her writing as a form of catharsis and a way to work through difficulties. In this conversation, she discusses her marriage, body changes, breastfeeding, anxiety, exhaustion, loss of self, and more. Alexa lives in Fort Collins, Colorado, with her farmer husband and two kids.

Show Highlights:

• Alexa’s story: how she, as someone with doula training, made her birth plan for her first child (born in 2019) with midwives, a doula, and a home birth
• The reality of birth in the middle of a big storm, power outage, and a situation that felt out of control
• Alexa’s overall account of her midwife experience
• A downhill slide after her baby was born—and she was left with very few options and very little information
• Alexa’s very difficult intro to motherhood with anxiety and overwhelm
• Writing: the best lifeline for Alexa
• Motherhood messaging in our society and on social media–and why real-life experiences don’t usually measure up
• Alexa’s second pregnancy, when her first son was only 5 months old
• Free birth–a birth with no medical professionals present
• Alexa’s second birth story: a healing and peaceful experience with no rules, regulations, regimented prenatal care, or manipulation by medical providers
• Hear Alexa share two poems from her book!
• Alexa’s advice to other women: “If you aren’t feeling strong, try writing about it and get those thoughts out. It can help to put them on paper.”

Resources:

Connect with Alexa Ericson: Website, Instagram, and Motherhood, Disenchanted book

Visit www.postpartum.net for resources and support!

Visit www.postpartum.net/professionals/certificate-trainings/ for information on the grief course.

Visit my website, www.wellmindperinatal.com, for more information, resources, and courses you can take today!