242. Love and Alcohol with Dr. Chavonne Part 2 of 3

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In part 2 of 3, I continue the conversation with Dr. Chavonne as we discuss the importance of setting boundaries and making conscious choices in relationships affected by alcohol consumption. We emphasize that boundaries are a means to protect oneself and are not about controlling or judging the other person's behavior. We explore how to navigate situations where one partner's drinking habits cause discomfort and suggest ways to address these challenges without resorting to ultimatums.

Key Takeaways:

1. Boundaries in relationships are about protecting yourself, not controlling the other person's behavior.
2. Setting boundaries involves making choices that prioritize your emotional well-being.
3. Ultimatums should be reframed as personal choices rather than threats.
4. Examining your own needs and triggers before addressing your partner's behavior can lead to more productive conversations.
5. It's essential to own your decision to stay in a relationship and focus on the reasons that matter most to you rather than trying to change your partner's behavior.

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