Are you a high achieving woman ready to have more energy and sexual desire again, but feel stuck because you are too busy, feel overwhelmed, and don’t want one more thing on your “to do” list? Congratulations brave one, The Find Your Feminine Fire podcast is for you. In this podcast, renowned Sex and Relationship Expert Amanda Testa shares what it really takes to have incredible sex, enjoy deeply connected relationships, and light yourself up from the inside out. Over the years, Amanda has g ...
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As a leader who deeply cares about your contribution and impact on the world, what if you were told that achieving the next level of success with your team, business and family won't be found through signing up for yet another training, expensive mastermind, or who's-who networking event. What if the key to your potential sits across from you at your breakfast table every morning? Krista Van Derveer and Dr. Will Van Derveer are husband and wife, business partners, and hosts of The Art of We, ...
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Are You Satisfied? is a podcast for creative professionals, the people who thrive within their creativity and are looking to deepen their connection to the inventive and original parts of themselves. Our mainstream world doesn’t fully honor the creative power within each of us or teach us how to tap into our innate artist for the greater good of society. Don’t lose sight of your imagination and get stuck in the white picket fence of life…which can lead to burnout, decreased mental and physic ...
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107. Sacred Sexuality: More Wholeness, Healing & Connection With Amanda Testa
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Join us as we dive deep into sacred sexuality with sex coach Amanda Testa, sharing our own journey of conscious intimacy alongside practical guidance for healing sexual trauma and embracing authentic pleasure. Whether single or partnered, discover how trauma-informed tantric practices can transform relationships and create more personal and interpe…
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FYFF Episode 316 Soulful Breathing For Empowerment With Casey Aksoy
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In this soul-nourishing episode, I sit down with my dear friend Casey Aksoy to explore how something as simple as our breath can transform our relationship with pleasure, presence, and power. As busy women and mothers, we often find ourselves running on empty, disconnected from our bodies and our desires. Casey shares how conscious breathwork can b…
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106. Political Differences: How To Talk About It
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In this heartfelt episode, we tackle a challenging topic facing relationships at this moment: how to keep our hearts open when political differences threaten to pull us apart. With the presidential election heightening tensions in many families in the US, we share our own journey of learning to have these difficult conversations, acknowledging the …
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E315 Silencing the ‘Good Girl’: Reclaiming Your Sexual Power and Authenticity
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Are you ready to finally break free from the patterns holding you back from authentic pleasure and confidence? In this episode, I’m unpacking the often-hidden role of “Good Girl” conditioning—the messages telling us to stay small, to please others, and to suppress our true desires. You’ll discover how this conditioning not only impacts our relation…
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How to Create Lasting Sexual Connections with Emily Nagoski
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I'm beyond thrilled to welcome back to the pod, the brilliant Dr. Emily Nagoski, author of the groundbreaking books "Come As You Are" and her newest release "Come Together: The Science (and Art!) of Creating Lasting Sexual Connections." In this intimate and enlightening episode, Emily breaks down what it really takes to maintain a vibrant sexual co…
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105. Giving Hard Feedback (Real Time Example)
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We dive deep into the art of giving feedback in relationships. We explore how to address habits or behaviors that may cause frustration while keeping love, respect, and collaboration at the forefront. Using a real-life example, we share a step-by-step approach for delivering feedback in a way that nurtures growth, creates alignment, and fosters a d…
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How Overworking is Killing Your Sex Life (and What to Do About It)
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In this episode, I'm diving into something we all need to be talking about: workaholism and how it’s blocking your sensuality and joy. Overworking doesn’t just take a toll on your schedule; it sneaks into your personal life, dims your pleasure, and even messes with your creativity and sex life. As high-achieving women, we're often juggling so many …
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104. How To Start A Conversation About Negative Impact (Replay)
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If you want thriving relationships, having the harder conversations is a MUST! In this episode, Krista gives examples on how to skillfully start a conversation when either you’ve been negatively impacted, or you think you may have left a negative impact. Cleaning these impacts up are critical to the health of any relationship, and of course most im…
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Kink Curious? How to Embrace Your "Taboo" Desires for Explosive Confidence & Healing
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If you're aching to feel madly alive, deeply empowered and wildly magnetic, but you've been too afraid to explore your "dark" desires - or too damn busy - then you need to devour the latest Find Your Feminine Fire episode stat. This week I’m talking kink, pleasure and power with my friend and somatic Sex and Relationship Coach Faith Laux, a former …
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103. Making Decisions When You Want Different Things
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Krista and Will dive into the delicate dance of making decisions together when you and your partner aren't on the same page. From the lighthearted story of their mug collection clash to the bigger conversations about significant decisions, they explore how they’ve navigated differences without sacrificing connection. Compromise is not the solution …
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Get Paid to Exist: Aligning Money, Pleasure, and Purpose with Kelly Noble
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In this episode, I'm talking with Kelly Noble, a quantum business coach and wealth activator, about helping women claim the wealth they deserve. Kelly opens up about her journey from the high-pressure corporate world, how she overcame personal challenges, and now helps women activate wealth on all levels. We dive into the idea of "getting paid just…
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102. Alcohol: Does It Help Or Hurt Your Partnership?
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A candid discussion about alcohol's role in relationships, including an honest conversation about how casual drinking habits subtly impact our intimacy, connection, and overall relationship satisfaction. We offer practical strategies for creating conscious conversations around alcohol and making healthier choices as a couple. Whether you're curious…
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How to Feel Pleasure When the World is in Pain
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In this episode of the *Find Your Feminine Fire* podcast, Amanda talks about how important it is to find moments of pleasure, even when the world or your personal life feels tough. She explains that pleasure isn’t just a nice thing to have, but actually helps with healing from trauma by building resilience. Amanda shares simple, body-based practice…
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101. “The Dry Cleaners Incident” (& How We Made Up)
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Krista and Will dive into a relatable moment that many of us have experienced—how a seemingly small disagreement can ignite big emotions. They unpack their own recent "dry cleaning incident" and share the raw and vulnerable details of what it triggered for each of them and how they repaired the rupture. You’ll learn how to navigate those frustratin…
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100. How We Handle Money As A Couple & Why
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Managing money as a couple doesn’t have to be a battle! In fact, it can be one of the most empowering & “mutually equitable” ways to grow together. This episode has insights on how to tackle tricky money conversations, turn financial stress into financial success, create money agreements & build a partnership where both of you feel valued & support…
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Discover The Liberating Power Of Menopause with Alexandra Pope and Sjanie Hugo Wurlitzer
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Are you approaching or experiencing menopause and feeling confused, overwhelmed, or even a bit scared? This episode is your beacon of hope and empowerment. Prepare to have your perspective completely revolutionized as we explore menopause not as a crisis, but as a sacred rite of passage into leadership, power, and profound transformation. In this e…
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99. Create A Healthy Relationship With Your Ex After Divorce: Dr. Jill Carnahan & Aaron Carnahan
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How do I maintain a healthy relationship with my ex after divorce? How do I forgive my ex after a difficult divorce? Listen in to hear Dr. Jill Carnahan and Aaron Carnahan’s inspiring story of how they have created a harmonious and healthy relationship after a painful divorce. You’ll hear how to have a healthy relationship with an ex after divorce …
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98. Sex: How To Talk About It, Stages of Development & Getting Stuck In Routines
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We cover a LOT in this one! Including: Creating a Safe Space for Sexual Conversations, Navigating Sensitive Sexual Conversations, Tips for Talking About Sex, Addressing Suppressed Desires and Fantasies, Getting Stuck in Sexual Routines, The Role of Sexuality in Relationships, Stages of Sexual Development, and more. Fostering an environment of trust…
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Flow State Alchemy: Harnessing Your Sexual and Creative Energy for Spiritual Growth
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In this week's powerful conclusion to our six-part pod series on sex, creativity, and power, we're diving deep into the profound connection between sexuality, creativity, and spirituality. As women who've achieved so much in our careers, it's easy to neglect our intimate lives and creative expression. But I'm here to tell you - rekindling that fire…
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97. Q&A: Help! My Husband Keeps Bringing Up The Past (And Won't Let It Go)
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Is there an issue from the past that keeps coming up? Or an ongoing conflict that can’t seem to get resolved? In this episode we explore effective approaches for couples seeking to resolve long standing issues and conflicts that resurface over time. We share our advice to a couple who is struggling with an incident that happened over 20 years ago, …
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Sacred Self Care And Cultivating Community
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In this episode, Amanda talks about the importance of deeper self-care that really taps into your sexual energy, creativity, and personal power. She explores how taking care of yourself in a more sensual way can help you connect better with yourself, your loved ones, and your community. Amanda also touches on the need to create supportive spaces an…
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96. Household Cleanliness Conflicts? This One’s For You!
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Do one of you like your home clean and organized but the other could care less? Does the majority of household clean up fall on one of you, while the other is mostly contributing to the mess? If you and your partner have conflicts around differences in cleanliness standards at home, this episode is for you! We share our own struggles in this area a…
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Shame Resilience: Unveiling the Shadows of Sexual and Creative Expression
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In this week's episode of Find Your Feminine Fire, we dive deep into the critical topic of shame resilience and its impact on our sexual and creative expression. Listen in as we explore how to create safe spaces for authentic self-expression and build unshakeable self-trust in the 4th episode of our 6 part series on Sex, Creativity and Power. Episo…
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95. How Committed Relationship Can Unlock Your Greatest Potential
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Have you ever wondered how to create a partnership that’s a vehicle for your greatest potential? Or struggled to create a partnership that can grow beyond the sum parts of the traumas, challenges or wounds that you and your partner bring into the relationship? In this episode Krista and Will share how they are using their relationship to explicitly…
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Creating New Pathways and Setting Healthy Boundaries
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This week on the podcast, Amanda breaks down how trying new things can boost creativity and improve your sex life by helping your brain form new connections. She dives into the idea of neuroplasticity—how our brains can change and adapt—and explains why setting and communicating healthy boundaries is crucial for personal growth. Amanda shares some …
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94. How To Prioritize Your Sex Life (And Why You Must)
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Is your sex life taking a back seat due to a busy schedule? Tune in to discover how and why to prioritize physical intimacy, with our personal tips and tricks to keep it at the top of your to-do list. We'll also share the psychological, physical, and emotional benefits of prioritizing your sex life, especially for mission-driven couples. Plus, hear…
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In this week's podcast, we're diving into part two of our six-part series on sex, creativity, and power. This time, we're all about embracing your worth and desires. Amanda gets real about how feeling worthy is key to living a fulfilling, sensual life and building long-lasting relationships. You'll hear about the struggles many of us face when it c…
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93. Our Game-Changing Connection Exercise (35 Min or Less!)
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Do you crave a deeper connection with your partner but don’t know how in the face of super busy lives and schedules? Listen in to hear about a transformative daily connection exercise that has significantly deepened our connection in the face of crazy-busy lives. By prioritizing emotional intimacy and mindful listening, we’ve found this short but c…
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Igniting Your Life Force: The Sex-Creativity Connection
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If you're feeling disconnected from your sensual self or struggling with low libido, this episode is for you. I'm share personal stories and practical tips to help you tap back into your innate feminine fire. In this episode you'll discover: Why sexual energy and creative energy are one and the same Understanding the neuroscience of pleasure and cr…
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92. Same Argument Over & Over? Here’s What To Do
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Do you and your partner have the same frustrating argument over and over? Or you can’t figure out why the same darn issue keeps coming up and you can’t seem to resolve it? We know all about that! Today we share how we woke up to the root cause of the ongoing argument that helped us resolve the issue, instead of just putting bandaids on it. Listen i…
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Sex, Creativity, and Power, How To Turn On Your Flow For More Pleasure And Success
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Dive into a world of sensual self-discovery in this transformative 6 week podcast series. Over the next six episodes you'll: • Explore the full spectrum of pleasure beyond just physical • Learn why pleasure is crucial for a fulfilled, powerful life • Discover your unique Pleasure Palette™ and use it as a compass • Integrate joy and satisfaction int…
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91. Great Relationship But No Chemistry? Try This
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Do you have a great relationship but it’s lacking chemistry? In this episode we suggest five unique areas to explore if your partnership is lacking the sparkle it used to have. We also share our relationship agreement that’s the secret to keeping our relationship chemistry and intimacy in tip top shape! (00:00) - Introduction to navigating relation…
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Finding Your Flock And Empowering Connection with Hey Birdie
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Ever wondered what happens when women flock together with purpose? 82% of women feel more empowered when part of a supportive community, so If you're a woman seeking personal growth, adventure, and genuine connections, you'll love this week's episode. I’m your host Amanda Testa, and today I'm thrilled to introduce you to the visionary founders of H…
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90. Relationship Ultimatum: When & How To Give One
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Giving ultimatums in relationships is a serious, but sometimes necessary, decision. In this episode we explore the circumstances under which an ultimatum might be the right move, how to thoughtfully prepare for delivering one, and the importance of being clear and committed when standing up for your needs. Dr. Will shares his personal experience of…
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How to Get Out of a Relationship Rut with Mark and Amanda Testa
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In this episode of 'Find Your Feminine Fire,' My husband Mark and I dive into the usual issues couples deal with, like feeling distant, having different sex drives, and lacking emotional closeness. We open up about their own experiences and offer real-life tips to dodge these problems, keep the intimacy alive, and bring back the spark in long-term …
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89. Our Agreement To Not “Threaten” Our Relationship
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Impulsively threatening the relationship when we get triggered, angry, or unable to work through repeating relationship conflicts is an ineffective way of attempting to get our partner to change. It creates insecurity, dysregulation and fear, rather than creating the feelings of safety and security that’s needed to work through difficult relationsh…
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What is Embodiment and Why is it Key for Better Sex?
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In this episode of the 'Find Your Feminine Fire Podcast,' Amanda talks about what embodiment means and why it's important for better sex, intimacy, and connection. She explains how tuning into your body's wisdom can lead to real change. Amanda shares what she's learned from coaching at embodiment retreats in Costa Rica, focusing on the healing bene…
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88. Masculinity, Vulnerability & Attachment
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How can you bring your vulnerability in a way that brings your partner closer to you? What is "masculine vulnerability"? In episode 88 of The Art of We podcast we dive into this topic, bringing smart relationship advice and best relationship practices for couples who want a successful partnership. We share our definition of masculine vulnerability …
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Sex and Your Stars, Tapping Into The Erotic Energy of the Zodiac with Stefanie Iris Weiss
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In this episode, I'm talking with clinical sexologist and astrologer Stefanie Iris Weiss, diving into how astrology can be a portal for exploring and expanding one's sexuality. Stefanie explains how astrology can be a portal to discovering our sexual selves and liberating our erotic energy. She discusses how shame often blocks our sexuality, and ho…
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87. Addressing The Impact Of Tech Or Work Addiction
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As mission-based people, it’s culturally acceptable to constantly be tethered to our phones, but what happens when being at the beck and call of our business gets in the way of authentic and deep connection? In this episode, we explore the impact that technology overuse has on our relationship and work on crafting a new agreement about using our ph…
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86. Krista’s Secret Dating Strategy (That Led To Meeting Will)
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Krista Van Derveer shares her journey of being single and looking for a partnership before she met Will. You’ll hear her unique approach on finding love after loss, preparing for a new relationship, navigating the dating world, and her secret relationship practices that helped her weed out incompatible partners to find a partner (Will!) that had si…
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The Future of Psychedelic Therapy with Sherry Rais
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Today’s episode is a must-listen for anyone interested in the cutting-edge therapies transforming mental healthcare. We’re diving deep into the realm of psychedelic assisted therapy with a remarkable guest, Sherry Rais. Sherry is the CEO and co-founder of Enthea, and she has been at the forefront of blending purpose with professionalism, guiding en…
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85. How Will “Called In” Our Relationship
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Will shares his journey of waking up on his 40th birthday realizing he didn’t have the kind of relationship he really wanted, and what he uniquely did to eventually call-in his next partner (Krista!) and co-create the kind of partnership they have today. Whether you're single and searching or looking to elevate your current relationship, this episo…
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Unlocking The Power Of The Mind To Heal Chronic Pain With Brandy Gillmore
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From Pain To Empowerment. Do you or a loved one suffer from chronic pain? Have you ever felt the frustration of hearing there's no solution for your suffering? How this affects your relationships, and challenges your intimacy? If so, this episode is for you. Today, I’m thrilled to be joined by Brandy Gillmore, a researcher and mind-body healing exp…
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84. Standing For The Kind Of Love You Want
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Within our web of vows that help us maintain what we believe is possible in our relationship, gambling everything for the love we want is at the center. In this episode, we unpack what that means for us and how we work to bring forth every aspect of ourselves, even in challenging or uncomfortable conversations. Unless we take a real stand for the k…
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Supporting Our Intimate Health With Caroline Goodner
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We often don’t talk about common vaginal health issues, and the mental impacts of those issues. Today We are talking with Caroline Goodner, the co-founder and CEO of OrganiCare, a leader in transforming feminine healthcare by making highly effective, natural products that are science-backed and available over the counter through national retailers.…
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83. Why You Shouldn’t Love Your Partner Exactly The Way They Are
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Dr. Will and Krista Van Derveer discuss why loving a partner exactly the way they are may not be compatible with growth and support in a relationship. They argue that unconditional love can become a cop-out for not truly supporting one another to step into their greatest potential, and that growth as a couple requires the willingness to acknowledge…
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The One Thing You Can Do To Improve Your Relationship with Mark and Amanda Testa
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What's the one thing I can do, such that doing it will make everything else easier or unnecessary? Today on the pod my husband Mark and I are sharing how prioritizing your relationship can make everything else in your life better. This episode was inspired by the book, "The One Thing" by Gary Keller and Jay Papasan. We talk about the power of focus…
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82. Questions From Oprah – Candid Q&A For Couples
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Join us as we explore Oprah's '110 Relationship-Boosting Questions for Couples,' asking each other spontaneous questions that not only led to unexpected insights for us as a couple but also highlighted areas where we need to gain deeper clarity in our intimate partnership. We get into topics such as: Is there such a thing as a “harmless” lie? How o…
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New Solutions for ED with Dr. Elliot Justin
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Are you looking to elevate your sexual health and wellness? ED, aka Erectile Dysfunction, can cause real struggles in relationships. And, ED is not just a later in life problem. 30% of men at the age of 30 suffer from ED. This number increases 10% every decade of age after. If this issue affects your relationship, you’re in luck as today on the pod…
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