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Welcome to the You Love and You Learn podcast, the place to learn about all things love, relationships, relationship anxiety, and deconstructing the one-size-fits-all narrative of what it means to be in a happy relationship. Join Sarah Yudkin, trauma-informed Relationship Anxiety coach, as she shares the nuance and context that most modern relationship advice is missing. Whether it’s a solo episode or Sarah sitting down to interview guests with their own unique relationship wisdom, you’ll le ...
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Are you ready to take the mystery out of having great relationships and to gain the knowledge you need to step confidently into the next level of your life? Welcome to the Let’s Get Vulnerable podcast where your host, Dr. Morgan Anderson, gives you real talk on all things dating, relationships, and sex. Dr. Morgan is a relationship coach, psychologist and creator of the E.S.L relationship method. She brings humor, truth and knowledge to the complex world of dating and relationships. Podcast ...
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Welcome! This Is (Not) About Your Body is a body neutrality podcast hosted by Jessi Kneeland, author of BODY NEUTRAL: A Revolutionary Guide to Overcoming Body Image Issues. Exploring all the real and deeper issues impacting body image, it features interviews on a wide range of relevant topics like mental health, intuitive eating, fatphobia, beauty ideals, sexuality, and gender.
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🤩 THE BREAK-UP ACADEMY $500 OFF ends tonight! Make sure you use code: OVERIT and grab it here: Join the Break-Up Academy Woo-hoo this episode is SO FREAKING GOOD! You’re gonna love this conversation between Sarah Yudkin and I, where we discuss healing relationship anxiety, co-creating secure attachment, and dating intentionally. Inside this podcast…
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You asked…we’re answering! Alexandra Schelling (of @toolboxforlove on Instagram) and I polled our communities for questions about navigating our significant other’s families, and we’re answering the questions in a two-part episode. Today’s episode is all about navigating relational dynamics with our partner’s family. Should we set boundaries with o…
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FIND OUT YOUR UNIQUE ATTACHMENT STYLE: Click Here to Take The Free Quiz In today’s short but powerful episode I give you REAL TALK on what it takes to be successful in your dating life. And it’s more about the BLOCKS that need to be removed, and less about your actions. Inside of today’s episode: We look at the three things that get in the way of y…
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Click Here to Apply to the Empowered.Secure.Loved. Relationship Program: Apply Here Today’s episode is all about the spiritual side of attracting the relationship you want. I believe neuroscience and manifesting go together beautifully; and in today’s episode we are getting woo-woo! Inside this episode: Cultivating surrender and openness is essenti…
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You asked…we’re answering! Alexandra Schelling (of @toolboxforlove on Instagram) and I polled our communities for questions about navigating our significant other’s families, and we’re answering the questions in a two-part episode. Today’s episode is all about what’s happening in our OWN mind when it relates to our partner’s family. Expectation vs.…
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Click Here to Apply to the ESL Program: Apply Here This is the episode I needed in my 20’s! I WISH someone had been this honest and direct with me about the path to transformation and healing. Inside this episode: I share with you six things that dramatically changed my life I discuss the importance of your inputs (your environment, friend group, a…
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Click Here to Apply to the Empowered.Secure.Loved Program: Apply Here This episode is giving you some hard hitting truths about anxious attachment style. Anyone living with an anxious attachment style, or in a relationship with someone with anxious attachment, will DEEPLY resonate with this episode. Inside this episode: How an anxious attachment st…
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his episode is a long-time coming, one I have been so excited to record and share with you because I wish more people knew this information! Menstrual cycles can have such a huge effect on how we’re showing up throughout the month, and if we don’t know what to expect…we can feel a lil’ crazy or guilty about the changes in energy, mindset, and emoti…
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Apply to the Empowered.Secure.Loved. Relationship Program: Click Here to Apply Mindset is SO IMPORTANT when attracting a healthy secure relationship. It’s time to get your mind right to uncomplicate your love life and connect you to the love you deserve. Inside this episode: The 5 mindset shifts to completely reset your dating life (so you can easi…
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VIP APPLICATION: CLICK HERE TO APPLY Empowered.Secure.Loved. Relationship Program. APPLICATION: CLICK HERE TO APPLY In this episode, I share my 10 non-negotiables for a successful life. This episode is like getting handed a cheat code for success; these are ten things I WISH I had known a lot sooner. Inside this episode: Truths about how to invest …
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I was pleasantly surprised when I listened to a podcast with James Sexton, a divorce lawyer who’s seen the ups and downs of couples for 25+ years in his career and has a lot of wisdom to share from it. Today’s episode focuses on a key thing he sees that leads to relationship breakdown: 1. Not knowing what you want or need, and 2. Not knowing how to…
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Click Here to Apply to the E.S.L. Program: Click Here to Apply Taking a break from dating IS NECESSARY at times, but it is only helpful if you work on yourself during the break. Inside today’s episode I discuss: How becoming the best version of oneself is crucial for attracting and maintaining a healthy, loving relationship. Acknowledging that curr…
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APPLY TO THE ESL PROGRAM: Click Here to Apply Inside this episode I debunk the myths around “settling”! I go deep on: Why I don’t believe in the traditional idea of “soul mates” Learning how to prioritize what truly matters in a relationship (instead of arbitrary items on a checklist that don’t matter) Learning to accept emotional availability when…
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This simple reframe has helped me (and dozens of my clients) in moments of relationship anxiety: zooming in when you’re thinking too big-picture, and zooming out when you’re hyper-fixated on something in the present moment. I explain why this matters in your relationship and specific examples of zooming in and out to help manage your anxiety. If yo…
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TAKE THE ATTACHMENT STYLE QUIZ: Click Here to Find Out Your Attachment Style Get ready for some Dr. Morgan tough love on today’s episode! Today I am sharing the necessary steps for releasing your trust issues, and attracting an emotionally available relationship that you deserve! Inside today’s episode I outline these four powerful steps to transfo…
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Enroll in the Break-Up Academy today (USE CODE: OVERIT for $500 dollars off!): Enroll Here 🥳 Apply to the Empowered.Secure.Loved. Program: Click Here to Apply In today’s episode I get extra vulnerable, realizing how what I have experienced recently has led me to greater appreciation for the emotional safety that is in my securely attached relations…
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This topic is LONG overdue, and that is feeling unworthy and how this affects our life and the ways we show up in our relationships. I’m thrilled to have had the chance to speak with Sarah Baldwin, who is a Somatic Experiencing Practitioner and expert in the field of trauma resolution. We explore reasons we feel unworthy, how to become kinder to ou…
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ACCESS THE SO OVER IT MASTERCLASS: WATCH HERE APPLY TO THE E.S.L. PROGRAM: CLICK HERE TO APPLY In today’s episode Ashlee Hogan shares her vulnerable and inspiring journey through the Empowered.Secure.Loved. Program We discuss: The impacts of growing up in a single parent home on our relationship beliefs How limiting beliefs about worthiness can hin…
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APPLY TO THE E.S.L. PROGRAM HERE: Click Here to Apply REGISTER FOR THE SO OVER IT MASTERCLASS HERE: www.drmorgancoaching.com/overit This episode is for you if you’ve ever wondered WHY you can’t seem to get over your ex. Inside this episode I do a deep dive on: : The 5-Part Process for fully releasing your past relationships Why most people mess up …
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Are you clear about what your needs are in a relationship? If so, do you communicate them openly with your partner? If you answered no to either question, you’ll enjoy this conversation. Our partners cannot read our minds, especially if we are not even sure what we’re expecting in the first place, so it’s important to take time to think about these…
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APPLY TO THE E.S.L. PROGRAM HERE: Click Here to Apply REGISTER FOR THE SO OVER IT MASTERCLASS HERE: www.drmorgancoaching.com/overit Ever wondered how your attachment style impacts how you process a break-up? Inside today’s episode we discuss: The thoughts each attachment style experiences as they go through a break-up WHY avoidantly attached folks …
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APPLY TO THE E.S.L. PROGRAM HERE: Click Here to Apply REGISTER FOR THE SO OVER IT MASTERCLASS HERE: www.drmorgancoaching.com/overit You are in for a special treat with today’s episode!! I was planning to record an episode on today’s topic, dating in the wild, and then on one of my recent client group calls, an amazing client of mine shared her take…
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Common questions I am asked are “what if I never had a honeymoon phase?” and “is it bad if I’ve had relationship anxiety/ROCD from the beginning of my relationship?” My two cents is how long we’ve had RA/ROCD is less relevant than what is contributing to the RA/ROCD…and that’s exactly what I explore in this episode! What factors may have contribute…
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APPLY TO THE E.S.L. PROGRAM HERE: Click Here to Apply REGISTER FOR THE SO OVER IT MASTERCLASS HERE: www.drmorgancoaching.com/overit You’re gonna love this episode! Inside this episode I discuss how: Timeline pressure can lead to feelings of fear, self-doubt, and comparison. Anxiously attached individuals may struggle to notice red and yellow flags …
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APPLY TO THE E.S.L. PROGRAM HERE: Click Here to Apply REGISTER FOR THE SO OVER IT MASTERCLASS HERE: www.drmorgancoaching.com/overit In this episode I am giving you the TEN things I wish I had known earlier about securely attached relationships You are gonna love this HONEST list that is packed with valuable relationship insights that will help you …
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Welcome to This Is Not About Your Body! This week I'm joined by Sarah Petroski! Sarah is a sleep coach and sleep medicine post-grad at the University of Oxford who helps tired but wired creative entrepreneurs optimize their sleep. I'm excited to chat with her about common sleep challenges, myths, and solutions. Find more from Sarah on her website a…
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Have you ever felt bored in your relationship and worried that something is wrong? Maybe you’ve wondered “is this normal, shouldn’t things feel more exciting than this?” I’ve been there, and this has been a trigger I have struggled with myself, so I wanted to explore it more. In this episode, I explore: 3 reasons why healthy love can feel boring Wh…
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This episode is SO POWERFUL & INSPIRING! Empowered.Secure.Loved.Program graduate, Yasmin vulnerably shares how her childhood attachment wounds have impacted her adult relationships. Inside of this episode: Yasmin shares vulnerably about her journey through the Empowered.Secure.Loved. Program including her biggest breakthroughs We discuss how the in…
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MOVE TO SECURE ATTACHMENT CHALLENGE: www.drmorgancoaching.com/gift ✅ Mark Your Calendars: I am LIVE on instagram on Tuesday 5/21 at 4pm PST 🥳 Now for today’s episode- DRUMROLL PLEASE…. Get ready for me to spill the tea on all of the juicy details of my proposal, and my real raw emotions about getting engaged. Inside of this episode I do a deep dive…
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Did you miss the Move to Secure Attachment Challenge?! Sign up for it here: www.drmorgancoaching.com/gift **DON’T MISS MY IG LIVE Tuesday 5/21st 4PM PST/ 7PM EST** Drumroll please… I’M ENGAGED!!! Whoa, can you believe it? Those of you who have been part of my journey, know how meaningful this milestone is to me. Inside of this episode: I tell the s…
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It can be so hard to trust ourselves when there is so much relationship information and advice out there. Even well-meaning friends and family can add their two cents when sometimes, we really didn’t need it! In this episode, I sat down with a client of mine who shares her journey of trusting her intuition in her first serious relationship. We also…
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Want the FREE 3-Day Move to Secure Attachment Training: CLICK HERE TO SIGN UP Ready to become securely attached so you can attract your emotionally available dream partner: Click Here to Apply to the E.S.L. Program This is the kind of episode that I wish I had had when I was early on in my healing journey because I had nowhere to go to. Inside this…
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Want the FREE 3-Day Move to Secure Attachment Training: CLICK HERE TO SIGN UP Ready to become securely attached so you can attract your emotionally available dream partner: Click Here to Apply to the E.S.L. Program Get ready for a powerful conversation with an incredible Empowered.Secure.Loved. Program, Rachael Thomas. In this episode we discuss: T…
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Welcome to This Is Not About Your Body! This week I'm talking with Jessica Maguire, a physiotherapist and creator of the Nervous System School, who teaches people to repair their nervous system using the vagus nerve. Jessica has a book coming out in August called The Nervous System Reset, I can't wait! Find more from Jessica on her website and Inst…
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Today we’re diving into something that has a big impact on our overall mental health and wellbeing; our vagus nerve. Amanda Armstrong, neuroscience and trauma-informed anxiety & depression coach (and now AUTHOR!) is back on the podcast to help walk us through how to improve our mental health by working with our vagus nerve - the nerve that connects…
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Sign-Up for the Move to Secure Attachment 3-Day Challenge to Be Delivered Directly to Your Inbox Click Here to Access the Challenge Mother’s Day is around the corner, so I wanted to address this painful topic of “healing the mother wound.” Inside of this episode I talk about What is the mother wound How do we start to heal our mother wounds and cho…
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ORDER LOVE MAGNET HERE: Amazon Link This episode is everything you need if you’ve been out of the dating game for a bit. Inside of this episode I share with you: The Dating Mindset you must cultivate to be successful The importance of slowly pacing beginning stages of dating Red Flags, Yellow Flags, Green Flags Aaaaaand so much more! Do not miss th…
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In this episode, I address advice like “a relationship should feel mostly positive / easy / joyful in order to be worth it”, and “if the balance swings negative or if the association is that the relationship is difficult or complex then it’s a red flag.” If you’ve ever wondered “shouldn’t this be easier?” – this episode is for you! The article I me…
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START YOUR HEALING JOURNEY TODAY: Click Here to Apply to the E.S.L. Program This is a JUICY episode! I haven’t EVER released this kind of episode before. Inside of this episode: We go deep into the neuroscience of attachment theory (which parts of the brain are responsible for forming bonds) I help you understand how the brain uses attachment exper…
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START YOUR HEALING JOURNEY TODAY: Click Here to Apply to the E.S.L. Program As many of you know, I’ve been on a health journey and working really hard to understand how my hormones impact how I feel. It can feel so confusing with all the different information out there, which is I why I very intentionally bring you one of the best experts on this t…
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START YOUR HEALING JOURNEY TODAY: Click Here to Apply to the E.S.L. Program This is one of those episodes you do not want to miss! I am joined by Heather Larsen, a graduate of the Empowered.Secure.Loved.Program, and an incredible example of what is possible when you decide to heal. Inside of this episode we decide: Healing involves feeling the pain…
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Welcome to This Is Not About Your Body! This week I'm joined by Emme Reynolds! Emme is a transgender parent to two children in a blended family who shares her journey of self-discovery and transitions on her Instagram and encourages open and honest conversations about gender identity. I've followed Emme for years and I'm so excited to have her on t…
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There is so much to learn from the Gottman Method of therapy, which is based on 40+ years of relationship research thanks to the work of John and Julie Gottman. I wanted to discuss how we can apply some of these key lessons to build better relationship habits, and was grateful to have a conversation with Anna Aslanian, a Licensed Marriage and Famil…
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START YOUR HEALING JOURNEY TODAY: Click Here to Apply to the E.S.L. Program Today’s episode is coming to you because I have gotten A TON of instagram DM’s asking me about how to navigate healing parental relationships. The truth is, when you are on your healing journey there is a lot that you become aware of, and your relationship with your parents…
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START YOUR HEALING JOURNEY TODAY: Click Here to Apply to the E.S.L. Program This is a topic that I know all too well: Healing from Narcissistic Abuse. Get ready for a short, but powerful 20 minute episode where I break down 5 Core Steps to healing after being in a relationship with a narcissist. This is the information I wish I had had when I start…
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Welcome to This Is Not About Your Body! This week I'm sitting down with Sarah Yudkin to talk about relationship anxiety! Sarah is a relationship anxiety coach, the founder of You Love and You Learn, and the host of the You Love and You Learn podcast, where she explores the nuance and context missing in most modern relationship advice. Find more fro…
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‘Healing’ and growth are usually looked at as good things. But what happens when it becomes something we’re doing to try and be perfect and fix all the ‘bad stuff’? If you feel like you ‘should’ be on a healing journey and growing, or else you’re doing something wrong and not going to live up to your ‘potential’ – this episode is for you. It’s a se…
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START YOUR HEALING JOURNEY TODAY: Click Here to Apply to the E.S.L. Program Today’s episode is a JUICY ONE! I am giving you my honest take on the TOP SEVEN things I wish I had known about relationships. Inside of this episode I discuss: The truth about anxious attachment (overfunctioning codependence oh my!) The most important relationship you will…
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START YOUR HEALING JOURNEY TODAY: Click Here to Apply to the E.S.L. Program You are going to love today’s guest, Nina Caviggiola! (find her on IG @balkannina ) Not only do I love Nina for all things fashion, and finding the best fits on the internet, she also opens up about her own healing journey in a refreshing and relatable way. Inside of this e…
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