#153 - "Normal People", Intimacy & Growth with Priska

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“I used to be the largest dairy consumer on the planet. I used to eat so much dairy and meat. The more that I looked into the dairy industry, the more that I saw that it was the singular, most inhumane industry on the planet, that we've all been lied to, including myself, for years. I always believed that the picture on the milk carton, the cow standing next to her calf in the green field with the red barn in the back was true. It’s certainly the complete opposite.” – Richard (Kudo) Couto Richard (Kudo) Couto is the founder of Animal Recovery Mission (ARM), an organization solely dedicated to investigating extreme animal cruelty cases. ARM has led high-risk undercover operations that have resulted in the shutdown of illegal slaughterhouses, animal fighting rings, and horse meat trafficking networks. Recently, they released a damning investigation into two industrial dairy farms outside of Phoenix, Arizona supplying milk to Coca-Cola’s Fairlife brand. What they uncovered was systemic animal abuse, environmental violations, and a devastating betrayal of consumer trust. While Fairlife markets its products as being sourced "humanely," ARM’s footage tells a very different story—one of suffering, abuse, and corporate complicity. Despite the evidence, this story has been largely ignored by mainstream media—likely due to Coca-Cola’s massive influence and advertising dollars.…

4 years ago 1:13:34

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First loves, coming of age, passion, romance, angst. YES, PLEASE. Minji and Priska openly share their love for the show “Normal People” based on the beloved novel by Sally Rooney. They go deep right out the gate with their thoughts and experiences with intimacy, abuse, heartache, beauty, class and mental health. They also dive into how the series portrays a particularly authentic journey with all the nuance and emotions of finding and losing love that everyday people around the world could connect with. There will be some spoilers but if anything, it may want you to watch the show more, so really they might as well be teasers. ;) (In true Minji fashion, she acknowledges she's a tad late to the hit of 2020 but let's overlook that because it's a miracle she even watched something, pls don't @ us.)

Priska is also our musical guest so stick around to hear her beautiful cover of "If The World Was Ending" with her husband Abe at the end!

How they felt about "Normal People" -

“I think this is the best thing I’ve watched since Parasite.” - Minji

“I do feel like this is millennial emotional porn.” - Priska

Warning: The episode contains sensitive themes about sexuality and mental health.
Add'l mentions from the episode:
Normal People by: Sally Rooney (book)
Normal People (TV show on Hulu)
Crappy Childhood Fairy YouTube Channel

00:00:00 - Intro
00:03:40 - Welcoming Guest
00:04:25 - Jumping in to Normal People
00:16:54 - Triggering moments
00:29:30 - Seeing and responding to abuse
00:37:35 - What does healthy intimacy look like
00:44:42 - Take-aways aka what do you want to cuddle up with
00:57:40 - Sexual Expression
01:01:05 - Wrap-up
01:03:48 - Outro
01:08:15 - Featured Artist (aka our guest Priska!)

This week's guest:

Priska (@priskamusik)

Follow Minji on:

Twitter (@minjeeeezy)
Instagram (@minjeezy)
Clubhouse (@MinjiChang)

Music featured in this episode include "Uzuhan" by Uzuhan and "Spiders" by Run River North

Follow the show on Instagram and Twitter and support our Patreon

This podcast is part of Potluck: An Asian American Podcast Collective

Produced by @marvinyueh
and @thisisannasun

200 episodes

#153 - "Normal People", Intimacy & Growth with Priska

First of All

95 subscribers

published 4 years ago

MP3•Episode home

Priska is also our musical guest so stick around to hear her beautiful cover of "If The World Was Ending" with her husband Abe at the end!

How they felt about "Normal People" -

“I think this is the best thing I’ve watched since Parasite.” - Minji

“I do feel like this is millennial emotional porn.” - Priska

This week's guest:

Priska (@priskamusik)

Follow Minji on:

Twitter (@minjeeeezy)
Instagram (@minjeezy)
Clubhouse (@MinjiChang)

Music featured in this episode include "Uzuhan" by Uzuhan and "Spiders" by Run River North

Follow the show on Instagram and Twitter and support our Patreon

This podcast is part of Potluck: An Asian American Podcast Collective

Produced by @marvinyueh
and @thisisannasun

200 episodes

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2 years ago1:22:57

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Far too many times in life, our narratives get told by others. Sometimes, being a passive passenger in the journey can feel the safest and most comfortable...until you realize the consequences of not speaking up on your or your community's behalf. Like misinformation, isolation, erasure, and even the exploitation of narratives to serve another's agenda. We're all becoming much more keenly aware of how this has been playing out for real all around us, and many of us are wondering how to approach it. In this episode, Minji sits down with Emily Inouye Huey, author of the moving YA novel "Beneath the Wide Silk Sky" - story about a Japanese American teenager named Sam who is navigating her young life in the wake of Pearl Harbor during WWII. Together they talk about Emily's personal process as a writer and as a Japanese American person unpacking very real family history that she's digesting. They go into the ups and downs of learning, embracing, and finding courage to share stories that mean so much, and how these stories can be vital contributions to culture, politics, and our own personal growth. Emily shares her thoughts on the recent book bans spreading across America, and what's at stake if we don't stand up for truth, accessibility and education. Timestamps: 00:00-10:15 - Introduction to episode & Emily featuring Uzuhan's "Uzutrap" 10:15-52:42 - Part 1 of conversation with Emily 52:42-54:42 - Break 54:42-1:17:00 - Part 2 of conversation with Emily 1:17:00-1:22:57 - Outro featuring Melissa Polinar's "Another Universe" Follow Our Guest Emily Inouye Huey: https://www.instagram.com/emily_inouye_huey/ https://emilyhuey.com/ Follow Minji On: Instagram (@minjeezy) Instagram (@firstofallpod) ▫️ Music featured in this episode include "Uzutrap" & "Another Universe" by Melissa Polinar ▫️ NEW!! : Subscribe to First Of All on YouTube & check out our S4 episodes on video! ▫️ Follow the show on Instagram and Twitter and support our Patreon ▫️ This podcast is part of Potluck: An Asian American Podcast Collective Audio Engineer @marvinyueh Producer @DaEunKim Social Media Manager @JulianaDeer…

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#182 - Stop Seeking Outside Validation with Gina Darling 1:26:41

2 years ago1:26:41

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We’re back FOA fam!! So glad to be back on the airwaves, kicking off season 4 with a vulnerable and honest conversation with the beautiful and badass queen of the Internet herself- Gina Darling. In this episode, Minji gets to fangirl a bit and also get some insight into how Gina has navigated one helluva life path with her family, unorthodox education, and unconventional career pursuits on her own terms. Brought up in an intensely strict and conservative Vietnamese home, Gina grew up trying to find out who she is apart from all the crazy expectations that so many of us face - how to act, how to dress, what to value, and what is “true” about our personalities and capabilities. Together Minji and Gina break down how their respective circumstances and choices shaped a constant need for external validation, and how they have finally begun to break the cycle in recent years. Follow Our Guest Gina Darling: https://www.instagram.com/missginadarling/ Follow Minji On: Instagram (@minjeezy) Instagram (@firstofallpod) ▫️ Music featured in this episode include "Uzutrap" & "devils & angels" by Flannel Albert ▫️ Follow the show on Instagram and Twitter and support our Patreon ▫️ This podcast is part of Potluck: An Asian American Podcast Collective Audio Engineer @marvinyueh Producer @DaEunKim Social Media Manager @JulianaDeer…

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#181 - FOA Bonus Episode: Holiday Check-In! 1:03:57

2 years ago1:03:57

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Ahhh the holidays.. a time to reflect and prepare the next vision board, and maybe a family tiff or deep introspective existential moment to round it out. Whatever your plans are for the holidays, whether you’re seeing all your loved ones or asserting your boundaries and sitting on top of a mountain solo, Minji stops by to say hi and wish you well as we close out another crazy year. She also shares some fun FOA updates and reflections on 2022 to end the year with some gratitude, acceptance & LETTING GO. THANK YOU FOA fam for an amazing year. Cheers to a joyful, prosperous, healthy 2023!! Don't forget to subscribe First of All's new YouTube channel: https://www.youtube.com/@firstofallpodcast Follow Minji On: Instagram (@minjeezy) Instagram (@firstofallpod) ▫️ Music featured in this episode include "Uzutrap" & "Gimme The Word" by Uzuhan ▫️ Follow the show on Instagram and Twitter and support our Patreon ▫️ This podcast is part of Potluck: An Asian American Podcast Collective Audio Engineer @marvinyueh Producer @AnnaSun (New) Producer! @PriksaMusic Social Media Manager @JulianaDeer…

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#180 - Healing & Falling In Love With Yourself with Anna Akana 1:21:14

3 years ago1:21:14

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The healing process, the inner work, the letting go, the consciousness, the forgiveness, it's all undeniably helpful...aaand let's be real, it also takes a lot outta you too. To close out FOA Season 3, we thought - who better to talk through all the ups and downs of battling ego, addressing inner child wounds and trauma, and conquering crippling emotional faceplants with deep insight and flair than our guest, actor and writer Anna Akana. Minji and Anna run the gamut of some of the ways their ongoing inner work has taken a lot of life-changing W O R K and has had massive payoff too. They share some vulnerable and embarrassing moments that had them face to face with their biggest insecurities and how they practice mindfulness to address harmful and problematic behaviors with some grace and even humor. They discuss the underrated benefits of being a little delusional and how to become their own friend/parent/cheerleader as they practice affirming and falling in love with themselves. CW: this episode includes discussion of mental health and suicide. Follow Our Guest Anna Akana: https://www.instagram.com/annaakana Follow Minji On: Instagram (@minjeezy) Instagram (@firstofallpod) ▫️ Music featured in this episode include "Uzutrap" & "Gimme The Word" by Uzuhan ▫️ Follow the show on Instagram and Twitter and support our Patreon ▫️ This podcast is part of Potluck: An Asian American Podcast Collective Audio Engineer @marvinyueh Producer @AnnaSun (New) Producer! @PriksaMusic Social Media Manager @JulianaDeer…

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#179 - Red Flags In Dating Pt. 1 with Dia Frampton 1:36:07

3 years ago1:36:07

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Dating can be super fun, exploratory, and adventure-filled with charming people you can connect with...when it's not a dumpster fire of poor communication, confusing mixed signals, bad manners, and weird vibes from strangers we'd rather forget. All in a day in the life of the modern single human being, right? Well a silver lining to our over-connected world of the Interwebs, we have all these platforms to vent, commiserate & educate each other on how to identify and deal with some of the more undesirable parts. Like what is just an unattractive trait vs a glaring neon sign saying RUN as fast as you possibly can? This episode, Minji brings back singer-songwriter and actor Dia Frampton to spill the tea on some of the red flags they've experienced in dating. With Dia's just recently entering the world of dating apps and Minji's multiple years of experience, they share the warning signs they've picked up on online and IRL. There might even be a role play conversation on confronting an awkward dealbreaker. Disclaimer, as there are SO many flags to identify and talk through, consider this a part 1 chat of many to come!!! Follow Our Guest Dia Frampton: https://www.instagram.com/diaframpton/ https://www.instagram.com/meganddiamusic/ http://www.diamusic.net/ Follow Minji On: Instagram (@minjeezy) Facebook (/christineminjichang) ▫️ Music featured in this episode include "Uzutrap" by Uzuhan and "Home To Me" by Simone Cardoso ▫️ Follow the show on Instagram and Twitter and support our Patreon ▫️ This podcast is part of Potluck: An Asian American Podcast Collective Audio Engineer @marvinyueh Producer @AnnaSun (New) Producer! @PriksaMusic Social Media Manager @JulianaDeer…

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#178 - A Conversation On Asian Racism & Intraracial Prejudice with Sami Jayne 1:32:38

3 years ago1:32:38

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Racism is a very complicated topic to broach. It can intimidate, trigger, and overwhelm so many so easily because of how pervasive and personal it gets, on top of how exhausted so many feel. Sometimes it feels like we've made some tiny headway towards a baseline respect, maybe even a bit of progress towards equity. Sometimes it feels like we've regressed or have come to a complete standstill. Meanwhile, the nuance of who gets put under the social microscope has evolved and includes more communities than ever before. In this episode, Minji sits down with her friend Sami Jayne to get as real as possible about racism within the Asian American/Asian diaspora. Together they discuss their own painful experiences between different Asian ethnicities, discovering the different roots of their prejudice, understanding intergenerational trauma from war and colonization, colorism, racial purity, and where they care to move the conversation. They also share their thoughts on how representation, especially in their shared world of entertainment and media, plays out to different levels of success and what work they believe is yet to be done. Follow Our Guest Sami Jayne: https://www.instagram.com/The.Sami.Jayne/ Follow Minji On: Instagram (@minjeezy) Facebook (/christineminjichang) ▫️ Music featured in this episode include "Uzutrap" by Uzuhan and “A Thousand Cuts" by Ruby Ibarra feat. Ann One ▫️ Follow the show on Instagram and Twitter and support our Patreon ▫️ This podcast is part of Potluck: An Asian American Podcast Collective Audio Engineer @marvinyueh Producer @AnnaSun (New) Producer! @PriksaMusic Social Media Manager @JulianaDeer…

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#177 - Mental Health Breaks & Being OK Not Being OK Update! 44:42

3 years ago44:42

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Minji returns to the FOA airwaves after an extended mental health and recharge break after one exhausting summer. A big update with reflections on making her first short film, learning to be proud of herself, unraveling with the overturning of Roe v Wade, and other impactful moments. She gets into the power of sharing stories, facing our unique fears, and taking time to get centered when everything, everywhere, all at once is just... a bit too much. Follow Minji On: Instagram (@minjeezy) Facebook (/christineminjichang) ▫️ Music featured in this episode include "Uzutrap" by Uzuhan and “Gud Luh" bye Isa ▫️ Follow the show on Instagram and Twitter and support our Patreon ▫️ This podcast is part of Potluck: An Asian American Podcast Collective Audio Engineer @marvinyueh Producer @AnnaSun (New) Producer! @PriksaMusic Social Media Manager @JulianaDeer…

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#176 - Learning How To Protect Yourself & Lawyer Up with Chuong Bui 1:40:32

3 years ago1:40:32

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No one likes a lawsuit. Lawyers are commonly vilified for exorbitant billable hours and sharklike tendencies. For many people, any situation involving legal counsel is one to run away from and avoid at all costs. And yet at some point, many folks do require legal help to navigate a complicated system of rules and power plays. In this episode, Minji sits down with her friend and actual legal counselor, Chuong Bui, who is a seasoned entertainment attorney and the co-founder of Counsel 4 Creators - a platform and subscription service to accommodate independent artists in their artistic journey. Together they dive into Minji's former deathly fear of legal matters, and a couple of the various incidents that made her analysis paralysis (mostly) a thing of the past. They also discuss Chuong's journey with becoming and practicing, as an attorney who helps out artists create great works of art and makes every "doctor or lawyer" comment from a parent suddenly doesn't seem so bad after all. They analyze the different barriers between need folks who can afford to get good help and the ones who do their best trying to get by on shoestring income but often need help the most. If you have ever been intimidated or overwhelmed thinking about lawyering up, this one's for you. Follow Our Guest Chuong Bui: https://counselforcreators.com/ https://www.instagram.com/counselforcreators/ https://www.instagram.com/who_is_bui/ Follow Minji On: Instagram (@minjeezy) Facebook (/christineminjichang) ▫️ Music featured in this episode include "Uzutrap" by Uzuhan and “Gud Luh" bye Isa ▫️ Follow the show on Instagram and Twitter and support our Patreon ▫️ This podcast is part of Potluck: An Asian American Podcast Collective Audio Engineer @marvinyueh Producer @AnnaSun (New) Producer! @PriksaMusic Social Media Manager @JulianaDeer…

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#175 - Unpacking Celebrity & Influencer Culture with Kevyn Fong (Level4Alpha) & Priska (Two Horny Goats Podcast) 1:48:33

3 years ago1:48:33

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From the days of Marilyn to The Beatles to Michael Jackson, Kim K & Logan Paul, it's safe to say that celebrity culture has evolved and transformed in its way into becoming an everyday part of our modern life. Now celebrity status includes "everyday" content creators or influencers who make funny skits from their respective glass rectangles, or even say.. podcast hosts. (Btw, we're self-aware here at FOA to know we are not celebrity status but do influence in our own way to our beloved brilliant audience, thank you love you) In this episode, Minji brings two of her dearest friends and fellow content creators Kevyn Fong (TikTok/IG's level4alpha) and Priska (singer/songwriter/co-host of Two Horny Goats Podcast) to dive into how our collective obsession/resentment/addiction/admiration/disgust with celebrities and influencers exists nowadays and how they attempt to navigate it all. Coming from a variety of backgrounds working in the entertainment industry from being talent and being behind the scenes watching how the sausage is made (and maybe making some themselves), they share their various insights on the fun and danger of it all. One example they dive into is the slap heard around the world by Will Smith at the Oscars, which they happened to be together to witness at the same time with very different reactions. Come tune in to hear them break it all down, wonder about our future, take responsibility for their relationships with the culture itself, and tips on how to maintain self-awareness and a healthy mental hygiene. Follow Our Guest Kevyn Fong: https://www.instagram.com/level4alpha/ https://www.tiktok.com/@level4alpha https://www.youtube.com/c/level4alpha Follow Our Guest Priscilla Liang-Kim aka Priska: http://www.priskamusik.com/ https://www.instagram.com/priskamusik/ https://www.instagram.com/twohornygoats/ Follow Minji On: Twitter (@minjeeeezy) Instagram (@minjeezy) ▫️ Music featured in this episode include "Uzutrap" by Uzuhan and “80HD Screens” by Solomon Wook ▫️ Follow the show on Instagram and Twitter and support our Patreon ▫️ This podcast is part of Potluck: An Asian American Podcast Collective Audio Engineer @marvinyueh Producer @AnnaSun Social Media Manager @JulianaDeer…

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#174 - Home Ownership & Real Estate For Newbies with Ken Er 1:34:22

3 years ago1:34:22

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So how about those home loan interest rates, eh? And...mortgages! Escrow? Closing costs. Contingencies. Bidding wars. OK, anyone else totally lost too? If you're anything like Minji, seemingly responsible grown up as she (mostly) saw herself, you might have reached adulthood hearing about this grand milestone of owning a home over and over again. You might have 100% expected it to happen for you at some point when you were good and "established", even aspired to it and considered it a key marker of your success. But somewhere in the giant batch of subjects that were never properly taught to most of us in school - budgeting, credit scores, taxes - home ownership is right up there in obscure and overwhelming adult rites of passage. In this episode, Minji brings calls upon her friend, realtor Ken Er, to come educate us all and commiserate with those who've been intimidated and in the dark about this mystical real estate journey. Together they swap stories on how they first approached their very different experiences of buying property, the lessons that they painstakingly learned, and how much they've changed in their financial literacy once they took the plunge. If you've ever been amongst friends and family, nodding along pretending to understand your aunties drone on about HOA fees and refinancing more than once, this one's for you. You are not alone. Links For Our Guest Ken Er: https://www.instagram.com/ken_er/ https://www.instagram.com/youreastbayhome/ https://youreastbayhome.com/ Follow Minji On: Twitter (@minjeeeezy) Instagram (@minjeezy) ▫️ Music featured in this episode include "Uzutrap" by Uzuhan and “Stumble Home” by Samica ▫️ Follow the show on Instagram and Twitter and support our Patreon ▫️ This podcast is part of Potluck: An Asian American Podcast Collective Audio Engineer @marvinyueh Producer @AnnaSun Social Media Manager @JulianaDeer…

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#173 - Emotional Thirst Traps & Life Lessons with James Tang AKA Your Internet Boyfriend 1:32:57

3 years ago1:32:57

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With times as crazy as these, we need all the support we can get. Deep conversations with friends, a good book, a tranquil walk through a park, a home cooked meal, meditation...and a social media persona moonlighting as our ultra caring significant other. Enter our Internet Boyfriend and charming FOA guest this week, James Tang. In this episode, Minji catches up with her friend James, the creative soul behind the viral TikTok character "Your Internet Boyfriend" who caught some attention for his sincere and clever emotional thirst traps. And oh did the parched online audience show up for the empathy, acts of service, and undivided attention via loads of direct eye contact. James' content happened to be a point of joy and levity in Minji's dark pandemic days, and together they reverse engineer how this character was inspired through James' acting background and the astoundingly low bar for dating these days...and perhaps since forever. They discuss how this persona is received across both male and female audiences, James' insights from "dating" so many people on the Internet, as well as how this character has truly helped people come to realize some important things for themselves. Links: https://www.instagram.com/jamesthetang/ https://www.tiktok.com/@jamesthetang https://twitter.com/jamesthetang Follow Minji On: Twitter (@minjeeeezy) Instagram (@minjeezy) Clubhouse (@MinjiChang) ▫️ Music featured in this episode include "Uzutrap" by Uzuhan and “Special” by Andy Yu ▫️ Follow the show on Instagram and Twitter and support our Patreon ▫️ This podcast is part of Potluck: An Asian American Podcast Collective Audio Engineer @marvinyueh Producer @AnnaSun Social Media Manager @JulianaDeer…

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#172 - Motherhood: The Good, The Bad, & The Unacceptable with Gaby Mier 1:48:35

3 years ago1:48:35

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Motherhood is a monumental, life-changing and sacred experience for those who embark on it. It's also an incredibly loaded topic shrouded in mystery, fear, and sometimes shame when it comes to the complex reality behind the glowy maternity photos, sonogram announcements, and darling newborn portraits. In this episode, the single and childless Minji invites her new friend Gaby Meier, a working woman and mother to a darling 1-year-old son, to get very honest and real about the ups, downs, & reality checks of motherhood today. They share stories of their own mothers, the examples they set, and their respective cultural environments, as well as their life expectations from an early age. They also get honest about their thoughts about feeling up for the challenge, their sense or lack of agency and choice, and the very real inequalities and shortcomings of modern American society in supporting mothers. They are here to un-boo all the taboos, to call out the lack of government and systemic support that should to be in place, and their hopes to provide space and support for the beautiful and hard realities of motherhood. TRIGGER WARNING - There is talk about miscarriages so if you need to skip this episode or come back to it later, please do. Follow Minji On: Twitter (@minjeeeezy) Instagram (@minjeezy) Clubhouse (@MinjiChang) Follow our Guest Gaby Meier On: Instagram (@wearisgaby) ▫️ Music featured in this episode include "Uzutrap" by Uzuhan and “Louder” by Alfa ▫️ Follow the show on Instagram and Twitter and support our Patreon ▫️ This podcast is part of Potluck: An Asian American Podcast Collective Produced by @marvinyueh & @AnnaSun Social Media Marketing by @JulianaDeer…

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#171 - Exploring The Law of Attraction and Manifestation with Roxy Shih (Two Horny Goats Podcast) 1:46:26

3 years ago1:46:26