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In this premiere episode of "The God Hook," host Carol Costello introduces the chilling story of Richard Beasley, infamously known as the Ohio Craigslist Killer. In previously unreleased jailhouse recordings, Beasley portrays himself as a devout Christian, concealing his manipulative and predatory behavior. As the story unfolds, it becomes clear that Beasley's deceitfulness extends beyond the victims he buried in shallow graves. Listen to the preview of a bonus conversation between Carol and Emily available after the episode. Additional info at carolcostellopresents.com . Do you have questions about this series? Submit them for future Q&A episodes . Subscribe to our YouTube channel to see additional videos, photos, and conversations. For early and ad-free episodes and exclusive bonus content, subscribe to the podcast via Supporting Cast or Apple Podcasts. EPISODE CREDITS Host - Carol Costello Co-Host - Emily Pelphrey Producer - Chris Aiola Sound Design & Mixing - Lochlainn Harte Mixing Supervisor - Sean Rule-Hoffman Production Director - Brigid Coyne Executive Producer - Gerardo Orlando Original Music - Timothy Law Snyder SPECIAL THANKS Kevin Huffman Zoe Louisa Lewis GUESTS Doug Oplinger - Former Managing Editor of the Akron Beacon Journal Volkan Topalli - Professor of Criminal Justice and Criminology Amir Hussain - Professor of Theological Studies Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices Support our show by becoming a premium member! https://evergreenpodcasts.supportingcast.fmā¦
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Mindfulness for the Legal Mind: a 10-minute talk plus 10 minutes of guided meditation. A brief refuge. The musings of a long-time lawyer, law professor, and mindfulness geek on lawyering from a mindful perspective. Tools to cultivate more joy, ease, and wellbeing in this crazy profession. Ideas to become even better at what you do, and save the world. A few minutes of peace every week, which you definitely deserve.
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Mindfulness for the Legal Mind: a 10-minute talk plus 10 minutes of guided meditation. A brief refuge. The musings of a long-time lawyer, law professor, and mindfulness geek on lawyering from a mindful perspective. Tools to cultivate more joy, ease, and wellbeing in this crazy profession. Ideas to become even better at what you do, and save the world. A few minutes of peace every week, which you definitely deserve.
Not much can change on the global scale, or even in my community (or even in my house), if Iām not thoughtful and intentional about my own personal behavior. I know that. You probably know that, too. But Iād also say, not much can change if Iām not thoughtful and intentional in a specific way : by being a little (or a lot) more generous; by committing, and making sure, that nothing I say or do will cause harm; and by taking the time, no matter how busy I am, and no matter how much the world throws at me, to train my heart and mind to be still.ā¦
Recently I said something snarky and it got back to the person.For the whole day, I dreaded what would happen. When the worst did happen, I felt even worse: a slow, painful remembering of how imperfect I am, despite all the striving. And of how perfection is not even a thing, no matter how much I strive. In a funny way, dread helped me. In fact, dread was the most helpful thing. Without dread, I wonder if Iād even have noticed, let alone cared. But with dread, and after making peace with dread, which took a minute, self-compassion emerged, and then a plan. And self-compassion plus a plan feels like a decent idea for this moment.ā¦
I hear a lot about sending love to humans, being kind and appreciative and compassionate to teachers, loved ones, friendsā¦even enemies. I hear less about sending love to the earth. Yet of all beings (if the earth is a being, and isnāt she?), doesnāt the earth deserve love, too? Doesnāt she deserve appreciation, and for once, instead of extracting from her, for us to give her our best, our love, our kindness, every good thing weāve got? Seem like itās the least we can do.ā¦
Are we ācultivatingā love, compassion, and joy, or do we already have plenty and just need to access it? If we have plenty, and just need to learn how to access it, whatās in the way of doing that? For me, itās wanting to hold onto the things that are working, and wanting all the really awful moments to end: all that wanting for things to be different, instead of learning to be āinā love right in this (imperfect) present. Which makes me wonder: if thatās true for me, is it true for everyone? And if so, then does that mean everyone? And if it does, then is compassion the right response, for all the everyoneās who just donāt know, yet, how to access their love?ā¦
Thereās āordinaryā news: market whiplash; leadership/not leadership; greed, hatred, and delusion. But thereās sweet news, too: the child of a friend and benefactor who cleans houses for living - a child whoās been planning to be a lawyer since they were five - got into Princeton undergrad with a full ride.Princeton, full ride, with a solid foundation of love and goodness underneath them: leadership in the making. In the middle of the muck (from the incredibly hard work of scrubbing toilets) a triumph. From the deep mud, a gorgeous lotus.ā¦
When I feel committed, it gives me purpose, energy, direction. But to fulfill my commitment, especially if someone else is committed to the opposite cause, I need to understand all angles, all sides. I need to not let disdain and scorn and hate get in my way It's a lot like practicing law. Attachment feels different. It feels like a clingy state. Thereās something I want, I think I know why,and Iām sure I know best. Iām not learning, not open, and often, not understanding. Thereās a tightness - itās inside the word itself - and separation, and sometimes, hate. Maybe commitment is about being fierce, and attachment is vicious. Maybe commitment is about caring and attachment isnāt. I donāt know for sure. What is the difference for you?ā¦
Signaling that weāre mindful, whether weāre speaking, writing, posting, or messaging, is simple. Thereās no lying, denying, or blame. Thereās no harm done. Weāre remembering that what we say and do, matters. Weāre not gossiping, just sharing whatās needed. And everything we say is kind. Itās simple, but maybe not easy. If it were, I feel like more of us would be mindful, whether weāre talking to friends or planning a campaign. Itās not easy, but it seems to me like a better standard of care, and a better Signal to the world, than the one we have now.ā¦
What is an appropriate response when I get something I donāt want, or donāt get what I do want? Bully the person I āthinkā is responsible? Chastise, criticize, frighten, and ruin them Iām following the Chief Justice and going with no. At least from a mindfulness perspective - and Iām guessing this is obvious: itās the age-old processes of listening patiently and with compassion, remembering weāre all in this together, and then making choices that donāt cause any harm, no matter how disappointing the moment. Or to make it even simpler, and as Justice Roberts said, file an appeal.ā¦
I donāt know what we can do in this moment except stay in the boat, and when we get tossed into the ocean, grab the hull and crawl back inside to safety. Thatās how it feels to me right now. But I wonder if thereās another way to safety. Maybe itās too odd of an idea, but what if we could create peace in the middle of chaos, by wishing everyone well. Not as a discernment practice (you deserve my well-wishes, you donāt) but by weaving a great cloak to wrap up into and protect ourselves with, and protect everyone else, too? Maybe itās a cloak of peace. Maybe itās one of love. Maybe itās a cloak of blessings, like the great poet John OāDonohue once wrote. I feel like I could use a blessing right now. Couldnāt you?ā¦
Emotions are running high. Western mindfulness, quoting Rumi, says, ill will, anger, even hate: āWelcome and entertain them allā¦.They may be clearing us out for some new delight.ā The ancient mindfulness texts arenāt as big on this. They say, the path to liberation is to abandon ill will. Give it up! Let it go as if itās burning your hand ā because it is. Rumi sounds like a good, careful, idea. Letting go sounds even better, but a whole lot more radical. Dr. King said, when youāre right, you canāt be too radical. What if the texts are right? What would happen if we took Dr. Kingās advice?ā¦
If breath is the focus, the anchor, refuge from an uncertain world, then maybe love is the antidote. Iām not saying I know much about love other than that it feels absent in so many places, and crucial in even more. I do know that love isnāt about two (or three or four) humans and our stary-eyed moments. It's about finding some way to keep our hearts open, available, and un-barnacled. It's about going down into the deep, to the belly of this remarkable vessel we call home, and ever so gently and lovingly scraping and prying off the detritus until the old, varnished, and luminous hull shines through.ā¦
Iām wondering about patience these days: accepting that things are what they are. Iāve studied and tried to practice that kind of patience with friends and family and colleagues and students and the everyday vicissitudes of life, and even with myself. And all of thatās one thing. But then thereās the news. And Anthony Romeroās suggestion (he runs the ACLU) that if all else fails, āwe may have to shut down the country.ā If patience is about accepting how things are, is it also about waiting to see if all else fails? And about shutting down the country if it does? The Dalai Lama says patience puts us in a stronger position to judge an appropriately nonviolent response. That sounds so wise, to me. But so does Mr. Romero.ā¦
This isnāt a moment when I can pay attention all the time: sometimes I just need to turn away, or walk away. But whether Iām engaged or disengaged, wisdom and love have their place. The question Iām working with is, how do I meet each moment with three wise intentions: to let go of wanting things to be different, because right now, they just are how they are; to be kind and loving, no matter what; and to have compassion for the wild cast of characters living on, and running, the planet right now. I wish I had any answers but at least thatās the inquiry right now. So, happy Valentineās Day. ā„ļø The classical invitation is to send some love to the beings you love. Thatās an easy one to accept. And hereās another invitation, maybe not as easy: send some love ā not flowers or chocolate but secretly, just in your own heart, or practice ā to someone you could never imagine loving, ever. And see how it goes.ā¦
When I think of faith, itās often faith in someone or something. But these days Iām thinking of faith in terms of believing that if I keep practicing, and we all keep practicing, then weāll know the appropriate response, meaning, the right thing to say or do. The right thing in our day-to-day lives, for sure. But also the right thing in a bigger sense. In other words, faith that all of this sitting in silence and filling the space with kindness, will give us the wisdom to know the appropriate response, if the courts go sideways or weāre in danger of losing the Republic entirely ā a Republic, said Benjamin Franklin, if we can keep it.ā¦
I have these moments when I feel like I should be doing more. Or at least doing something. But right now Iām not sure what to do, or how, or when. So instead, right now, for now, Iām taking care of myself. Iām practicing, Iām spending time in nature, Iām spending time with friends and family and the puppy. Doing less. Resting up. Taking refuge. But there will come a time when what to do, and how, and when, will become clear. And when that time comes ā when thereās a crack and the light starts to get in - I plan to be rested and resourced and ready. I hope you do, too.ā¦
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