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EP #1402: How to Set Boundaries and Avoid Codependent Behaviors for Healthier Relationships

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Making Movies in Our Minds: Working Through Our Anxiety - July 3, 2023:

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Summary
In this conversation, Lisa Davis and Dr. John Trentalange discuss the difference between being codependent, being empathetic, and wanting to help someone. They define codependency as sacrificing oneself for others and emphasize the importance of being aware of one's sacrifices. They also discuss the importance of setting boundaries and not crossing them when trying to help others. They highlight the difference between true empathy, which is understanding someone's perspective, and codependent empathy, which involves trying to feel someone else's feelings. They encourage listeners to slow down, think about their motives, and offer help without imposing it on others.
Keywords: codependency, empathy, helping others, sacrifices, boundaries
Takeaways
  • Codependency involves sacrificing oneself for others without being aware of it.
  • True empathy is understanding someone's perspective, while codependent empathy involves trying to feel someone else's feelings.
  • Setting boundaries and not crossing them is important when trying to help others.
  • Slowing down, thinking about motives, and offering help without imposing it on others can help avoid codependent behaviors.

Sound Bites
  • "Codependency is often giving up ourselves to get something and then we become resentful."
  • "Treat others the way that they want to be treated, not the way that we want to be treated."
  • "We have to pay attention to our investment and really doing a reality check with ourselves about what is my motivator."

Chapters00:00Introduction and Overview
03:18The Difference Between Codependency and Empathy
08:06Setting Boundaries and Avoiding Codependent Behaviors
14:57Slowing Down and Thinking About Motives
25:00Understanding Empathy
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Content provided by Lisa Davis MPH. All podcast content including episodes, graphics, and podcast descriptions are uploaded and provided directly by Lisa Davis MPH or their podcast platform partner. If you believe someone is using your copyrighted work without your permission, you can follow the process outlined here https://player.fm/legal.
TO WORK WITH DR. JOHN - text him here: 719-310-9495 and let him know you are interested in a 15 minute FREE consultation.
Get Dr. John's books here:

Making Movies in Our Minds: Working Through Our Anxiety - July 3, 2023:

https://tinyurl.com/b7kp2etk
Connecting In A Disconnected World: Activities That Build Connections With Children:
https://tinyurl.com/53vswdby
Summary
In this conversation, Lisa Davis and Dr. John Trentalange discuss the difference between being codependent, being empathetic, and wanting to help someone. They define codependency as sacrificing oneself for others and emphasize the importance of being aware of one's sacrifices. They also discuss the importance of setting boundaries and not crossing them when trying to help others. They highlight the difference between true empathy, which is understanding someone's perspective, and codependent empathy, which involves trying to feel someone else's feelings. They encourage listeners to slow down, think about their motives, and offer help without imposing it on others.
Keywords: codependency, empathy, helping others, sacrifices, boundaries
Takeaways
  • Codependency involves sacrificing oneself for others without being aware of it.
  • True empathy is understanding someone's perspective, while codependent empathy involves trying to feel someone else's feelings.
  • Setting boundaries and not crossing them is important when trying to help others.
  • Slowing down, thinking about motives, and offering help without imposing it on others can help avoid codependent behaviors.

Sound Bites
  • "Codependency is often giving up ourselves to get something and then we become resentful."
  • "Treat others the way that they want to be treated, not the way that we want to be treated."
  • "We have to pay attention to our investment and really doing a reality check with ourselves about what is my motivator."

Chapters00:00Introduction and Overview
03:18The Difference Between Codependency and Empathy
08:06Setting Boundaries and Avoiding Codependent Behaviors
14:57Slowing Down and Thinking About Motives
25:00Understanding Empathy
Royalty Free Music from Tunetank.com Track: Surfing! by automaticbananas https://tunetank.com/track/5070-surfing!/
  continue reading

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